
GUESTBOOK ARCHIVE 2
Here is what some previous guests have written about their commitment to abstinence:
Entry of Dec
7, 1998 at 23:08 [EST]
From: Jennifer
Beavers - Beavo17@aol.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I was looking up information for a religion report and began
to read this, it became really interesting and I, have previously experienced,
although at a very young age, pre-marital sex. It was not a good experience,
nor the "best" experience of my life. If I had the chance to not have
sex, I would've...but, teenage men, older, push you and you feel like you "have
to." Well, I can definitely relate to women who have experienced the same
thing I have gone through. It was a terrible experience, and it should be an
experience I want to encounter that will "mean something special."
Therefore, I am waiting until I am married.
Entry of Dec
8, 1998 at 23:04 [EST]
From: jason
oldfield - JOfunboy@hotmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I'd just like to say that it's really tough to stay a virgin
when it's friday night you're having at blast at some party where you and every
one else are totally drunk, and it's even harder if you're with your girl friend.
so all you high school partiers think about what you really want in your heart.
believe me i know [website creator's note: see #8 of The
Steps]
Entry of Dec
8, 1998 at 23:46 [EST]
From: Delories
- nubiengoddess@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: All praise,All honor and All glory belongs to God. I myself
believe that the God I serve is a God of second chances. Thru forgiveness from
christ we are all made new. I have never been one to regret my actions,however
I believe that is my duty to be in the middle of God's will for my life. So
secondary virginity has to be the best thing available for one who want to start
over,and do things the right way. I highly recommend it.
Entry of Dec
8, 1998 at 23:55 [EST]
From: Tia
- ldwilli@ilstu.edu
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I currently a young women trying to live a christian life on
a very large college campus. It's very hard to try and find someone who respects
the fact that your a pure young lady, and want to keep it that way till marrige.
Most guys think because of the way you look or your body build that your automatically
having sex this is not true. Since when did virginity get an age limit. I can
do all things thru christ that strengthens me. BE PATIENT,GOD DOESN'T MAKE MISTAKES...GOD
BLESS.
Entry of Dec
9, 1998 at 00:10 [EST]
From: JONATHAN
S. VISPERAS -
JOHSQRLL@HOTMAil.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Dec
9, 1998 at 14:03 [EST]
From: Chris
Roecker - c_roecker@hotmail.com
Age: 14
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I'm doing this for school. :p good luck @ not having sex
Entry of Dec
10, 1998 at 08:01 [EST]
From: Janet
Bell - mommab@uswest.net
Age: 35
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: I just want you to know that I am happily married have been
for 10 years, and have only had one partner. That is my husband. It doesn't
make sex worse, it's better. He knows me like no one on earth. It is better!!!!
I hope other people will discover what the Lord has known all along. The best
commitment is a total commitment.
Entry of Dec
10, 1998 at 14:18 [EST]
From: kim
- varuca99
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Dec
10, 1998 at 14:43 [EST]
From: laurel
bode - varuca99@aol.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I had to do this for a persuasive speech, this site really
helped. its great that teens are saving themselves
Entry of Dec
11, 1998 at 01:15 [EST]
From: Jenni
Heflin - bdoll123
Age: 17
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments:
Entry of Dec
11, 1998 at 09:03 [EST]
From: westside
- dfa!das@dsfll.net
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Dec
12, 1998 at 20:55 [EST]
From: Rnel
- coolest_guy97@yahoo.com
Age: 23
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I'm just surfing the net, coz I'm looking for my brother research
paper regarding premarital sex. I'm very lucky to find out your page coz this
will help a lot for my brother to make his research paper very interesting...Thanx
a lot!...Of course, abstinence is also my choice we, filipinos believe the sacredness
of marriage.
Entry of Dec
13, 1998 at 21:29 [EST]
From: Stefanie
- rad5@gateway.net
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: thanks so much. It was a lot of help!
Entry of Dec
14, 1998 at 19:09 [EST]
From: Hope
M. Houston -
ghhouston@worldnet.att.net
Age: 31
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I found this website to be extremely useful and worthwhile.
I commend you on a job well done and worthy of esteem! Thank you sincerely for
being as honest as you have been. I teach 11, 12 and 13 (and some 14) year old
teens and they indeed need guidance on what they are feeling. Thank God that
we (Christians) know that we cannot base or ideas on feelings; that God's word
is activated in our life through what we know of his word and nothing more!
It is indeed the truth that sets us free--and God's word is utterly and completely
true! Thank you again! With your permission, I would like to use your site as
a reference to many of my students. They need to know the alternative to premarital
sex.
Entry of Dec
15, 1998 at 13:46 [EST]
From: Jennifer
Progar - jprogar@excite.com
Age: 23
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I would love to correspond with others too! :)
Entry of Dec
15, 1998 at 14:09 [EST]
From: Sarah
- SarahBeara@hotmail.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I just wanted to let you know what a great site this is. I
am doing a reasearch paper in English on pre-marital sex, and I just had to
say that your site helped me out so much!! I have been a Christian since I enetered
the 2nd grade, and I do not whatsoever under any circumstances think that pre-martial
sex is okay. Anyways, keep up the awesome job!!! Sarah, Ca.
Age: 29
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I AM TWENTY-NINE YEARS OLD AND SOON TO BE THIRTY IN TWO MONTHS,AND
I CAN TRULY SAY THAT GOD CAN KEEP YOU IF WANT TO BE KEPT! IT IS GOOD TO KNOW
THAT THERE ARE SOME OTHER YOUNG PEOPLE THAT ARE TAKING THEIR PURITY SERIOUSLY.
IF YOU WANT TRUE PURITY YOU MUST FIGHT FOR IT! REMEMBER GOD SAYS WAIT, SO IM
GOING TO PLAY IT STRAIGHT, AND IF YOU WANT TO BE WITH ME RESPECT ME TOTALLY,
CAUSE WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO LOVE I TAKE GODS POINT OF VIEW! AND IM GOING TO
SAVE IT ALL TILL THE DAY I SAY I DO!
Entry of Dec
16, 1998 at 13:33 [EST]
From: Kim
- mon_bd_@89
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: It is hard to not think about the past but when you know you
did wrong it hurts to even when I know God forgives. I regret it sometimes but
I have to go on. I wish I found this sight a long time ago.But hey Jesus will
love me anyway. Thanks.
Entry of Dec
17, 1998 at 13:32 [EST]
From: J-Roc
- mon_db_@45
Age: 15
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: I cried. I don't know what to do. I need Jesus and help to
cope with this problem. .Your website helped me
Entry of Dec
23, 1998 at 04:14 [EST]
From: Sharilyn
- sstearma@mail.snu.edu
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: i just wanted to say i think this page is awesome! premarital
sex is wrong but God does forgive! i've managed to make it this far and i know
i've made some mistakes but God can help me the rest of the way. thanks for
the encouragement that i'm not alone. I'd love for people
to write me!
Entry of Dec
29, 1998 at 01:21 [EST]
From: stephanie
m. - steflufgus@AOL.COM
Age: 19
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I found this web sight on what felt like a blessing. I was
over my good friend's house in need of advice, answers, solutions, anything
to explain the doubts flowing through my head. I've found it hard to stay abstinent,
and now in a relationship even harder especially when the thought is always
in my head. I was having feelings that it wasn't fair and maybe I was just doing
it for God and not myself, but through reading "The Steps" , great
advice, and a strong love and faith in God, I re-remembered that God walks beside
me and through dificult time, carries me and no matter what He will always love
me. So now re-knowing this I have faith in myself because I know God has faith
in me! TLW.
Entry of Dec
29, 1998 at 17:34 [EST]
From: michelle
- queenmab60@hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: i came here because i am working on my senior project, and
it will help. i am LDS and believe in abstinence, but i am a freak. i am 18
and i have never even kissed anyone! it's not that i don't want to, or that
i haven't had the chance, i just haven't found anyone i liked, and i figure,
hell, i've made it this far, why waste it now? so, i am pure as the driven snow,
and that is no lie. and you know what? i'm proud of myself.
Entry of Dec
30, 1998 at 22:40 [EST]
From: Kristi
- Vega_North@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Jan
1, 1999 at 18:45 [EST]
From: Rita
- none
Age: 32
How I found your page: A publication
Comments: I'm from Seattle and I have a great group of friends that support
each other as we strive for purity until we are married. I'm so thankful.
Entry of Jan
2, 1999 at 01:08 [EST]
From: Namibia
El - Namibia75@aol.com
Age: 23
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am from NJ. I have been practicing abstinence for the past
8 months. I have resolved for the New Year to stay committed to being abstinent.
I am taking this day-by-day, although everything around me promotes sex. I have
found encouraging information in this site. Thanks.
Entry of Jan
3, 1999 at 19:18 [EST]
From: Elise
- kara.lumpkin@mailcity.com
Age: 14
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I'm doing a persuasive speech on abstinence and was really
surprised to find out that my whole high school speech class was committed to
abstinence. I think it's great and I'm to wait until marriage, so it will be
special. Write me!
Entry of Jan
4, 1999 at 00:26 [EST]
From: Ian
Brandt - Worldly_Man@hotmail.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: From Waterloo, Ontario. I go to the University of Waterloo.
Entry of Jan
4, 1999 at 01:29 [EST]
From: Kristine
Kramer - kriskram@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in a little town in Iowa. And believe me, sex is still
a "normal" thing in my high school of 96 people. Well, according to
my beliefs, it's not a normal thing until I'm in a wonderful Christian marriage.:)
Entry of Jan
6, 1999 at 18:07 [EST]
From: James
V. - none
Age: 23
How I found your page: A publication
Comments: I'm hoping that by the time I get married I can find a woman
who has kept herself pure.
Entry of Jan
6, 1999 at 23:13 [EST]
From: Annie
Whitney - awhitney@hotmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: This is a great site that's really reassuring and encouraging
for teens like me who don't want to have sex until marriage. Although I have
had a sexual relationship in the past that I DEEPLY regret, I have since come
back to know God and asked for and received His forgiveness. That's the amazing
thing about the Lord...even if you, like me, have messed up in the past, it
is the past, and He will forgive you for it! Oh yeah, I live in Texas
Entry of Jan
7, 1999 at 00:58 [EST]
From: Tammy
- Pollo_en_Fuego@hotmail.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Aloha, I'm from California. This is a really awesome website,
I totally agree with it. I found it while looking for information for a poster
on Abstinence and this is the first link I clicked on. The information on here
has also affected me personally. Sometimes it seems really hard to adhere to
the things I've committed myself to, especially since so many of the people
I'm surrounded by oppose me on all sides. It gets really frustrating. Even though
my best friends have made the same decision, it's still really hard. So I thank
you for having this website. It will help so many people. I know it.
Entry of Jan
11, 1999 at 19:39 [EST]
From: Lisa
- snapdragon84@hotmail.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I am from Jefferson, Iowa and I've always thought that having
sex with a person was the most special thing you can share with someone and
that it should be shared with the person you really love!!!!I have yet to find
someone who feels the same at such a young age! So many people don't think this
way, and I wish they would! There are so many schools and advertisements promoting
safe sex but can't they promote NO SEX?
Entry of Jan
13, 1999 at 00:40 [EST]
From: Ivy
Noel Peterson
- ivynoel@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in marinette wisconsin I went into this site because
i am doing a persuasive speach for my junior english class. I have regrets from
the past and now am looking into abstinence. WWJD
Entry of Jan
13, 1999 at 00:46 [EST]
From: Steven
Burdick - sburdick1@juno.com
Age: 21
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I had sex when I was 18 and regreted losing my virginity to
someone I did not truly love and did not plan on spending the rest of my life
with. I have now chosen to abstain from sex until I find the woman that I want
to spend the rest of my life with. (I'm from K.C. missouri)
Entry of Jan
15, 1999 at 21:22 [EST]
From: Caroline
- carolinethomas@hotmail.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: You guys rock.
Entry of Jan
16, 1999 at 02:52 [EST]
From: Kent
Pritchett - pritchke@home.com
Age: 24
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I am from Canada, and I have always believed everything on
this web page. The section on the "world with abstinence" is really
good because it is pretty much common sense. Just some thoughts of my own to
share; I think the hardest time for people who are trying to be remain abstinence
is probably from grade eleven and through University or College. At least it
was for me, I often felt alone and vulnerable, sometimes I probably even cried
because no one seemed to respect my opinion and feeling all alone. Although
in those troubled times I drew strength from God, a few close friends, and my
family even though they were far away. I remained strong at heart and stuck
to my principles. My reasons were to be faithful to my future wife in past,
present, and future whoever she may be. Set the best example I could for my
younger sister, I do practice what I preach, and also because it feels right.
I am also glad that God has helped develop a strong heart and will in so many
people as in this guest book. For those of you who feel you are struggling remain
strong you are not alone, God is with you and you have friends out there who
will support you and talk with you even though you may not know who they are,
they are there.
Entry of Jan
17, 1999 at 15:52 [EST]
From: Barry
- bnjones@eden.trevecca.edu
Age: 31
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: Lovely web page.
Entry of Jan
20, 1999 at 07:44 [EST]
From: Susan
Hilliard - Bmodiva@aol.com
Age: 27
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: Hi, my name is Susan and I hail from the great city of Baltimore,
Maryland. I am a member of New Antioch Baptist Church of Randallstown, and I
love the Lord. I committed my life and my temple to the Lord, Jesus Christ,
and I ask Him to hold me accountable for what He has asked of us in the word
when it comes to sexual purity. I thank Him for His mercy, and for His second
chances that He grants me every morning! He's Worthy!
Entry of Jan
22, 1999 at 13:07 [EST]
From: Dannell
Britt - www.thyatria@hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in Joplin, MO. I found this site by looking up things
about sexual abstinence for my group. We are doing a newsletter for class and
all of us but one is choosing sexual abstinence ( I think the other one isn't).
I'm the only one in my group of friends that has remained a virgin. I'm proud
of that fact and so is my family and friends. The reason why I have chosen sexual
abstinence is because I Love God!!!!!! The best way to this is to obey Him on
all things plus I want a intimate relationship with God. I love doing things
like reading, and going to the movies even though I'm a homebody. I have two
sisters and one brother and my parents are still together after 21 years of
marriage and still LOVE each other. One thing is for sure I'm blessed and I
joyous about it!!!!!!!!! PRAISE GOD!!!!!!!!!!!!
Entry of Jan
23, 1999 at 23:26 [EST]
From: Elsairon
- elsairon@mich.com
Age: 23
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Thank You Michigan, USA
Entry of Jan
24, 1999 at 05:18 [EST]
From: Ria
Mendoza - tere@compass.com.ph
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: this is a very helpful page not only to teenagers, but also
to parents to help and guide their children to lessen the pre-marital, extra-marital,
and other factors that are connected in this issue. thanks for this page....
Entry of Jan
24, 1999 at 19:49 [EST]
From: Ashley
- stargleam8@aol.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I live in central Arkansas. I am doing a speech on sexual abstinence
and found this page very helpful. I plan on staying abstinent.
Entry of Jan
25, 1999 at 22:10 [EST]
From: sonny
de lara - sonny@hotmail.com
Age: 21
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments:
Entry of Jan
26, 1999 at 13:38 [EST]
From: Julie
Veal - Jules@ILoveJesus.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I live in Nikiski, Alaska.Your site is awesome, what a great
rescource, I was surprised to see hte vast number of kids committed to abstinence.
Visit my web page at www.geocities.com/southbeach/marina/7739.
Always Be joyful, keep on praying, no matter what happens, be thankful.
Entry of Jan
26, 1999 at 15:16 [EST]
From: Stephanie
Hilbrand - hilbr_sr@students.uwlax.edu
Age: 21
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Jan
27, 1999 at 02:36 [EST]
From: Zacel
- SweetT@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Hi...I'm a S.Cali girl, and I'm doing this article for my school
newspaper about "True Love Waits." If you haven't heard about it,
it's a nation-wide campaign.A pledge to sexual abstinence till marriage. I made
that commitment years ago, and now that I realize how many teens are giving
into the temptation, I decided to do this article, and while I was searching
the net for things I could include in my article, I found this site.I just wanted
to encourage all of you who read this to keep the faith and remind you that
God's way is always right. Keep waiting and praying for that True Love, and
dont forget that God is our first love =).God bless you all!
Entry of Jan
27, 1999 at 10:57 [EST]
From: Camden
McClintock -
I
don't have one!
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Jan
27, 1999 at 11:01 [EST]
From: Mindy
Crane - mindycrane@hotmail
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Jan
27, 1999 at 17:28 [EST]
From: Curtis
Powell - curtisjamz@hotmail.com
Age: 24
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Keep up the good site. This is tight !! I work with young people
who are under a great deal of pressure to conform. This site has provided great
information for all of us. Thanks Pastor P.
Entry of Jan
29, 1999 at 01:49 [EST]
From: Jason
C. Cocjin - don't
have
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am from the Iloilo City, Philippines
Entry of Jan
30, 1999 at 02:06 [EST]
From: Susan
Bass - U_BassSY@fhu.edu
Age: 24
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I am from Huntsville (actually Toney), Alabama. I am away at
college in Henderson, TN at Freed-Hardeman Univ. I don't really know what else
to say.
Entry of Jan
30, 1999 at 05:51 [EST]
From: Joseph
T. McKellar -
JoeMan120@aol.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: (I live in Brea, California). Sex before marriage I know now
is wrong, both morally and religiously. I realize now I can be a better person
if I show abstinence to God. I thank God for Blessing me with this site to open
up my eyes to His word forever.
Entry of Feb
1, 1999 at 04:55 [EST]
From: Jonnie
Dee - jonniedee@juno.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Feb
1, 1999 at 10:31 [EST]
From: Frank
- Tsesarevich@hotmail.com
Age: 22
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am a Roman Catholic boy from Connecticut, and I am a virgin.
I have never really had a relationship with anyone, certainly not a sexual one
-- I am still looking for the right person. I am committed to staying a virgin
until marriage, and I want to marry a virgin. That is the number one criterium
for me, along with religion. If anyone out there would like to get to know me
better, please E-mail me, I would love to hear from you. Thank you. [website
author's note: please see the Q&A page and read the letter "I
saved myself but she didn't"
to see our thoughts on this situation.]
Entry of Feb
1, 1999 at 22:19 [EST]
From: Crystal
Grace Sloyer
- smilin_blond@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: This is the awesomest and most important decision a person
could ever make!!! Crystal Sloyer Mission Viejo, CA
Entry of Feb
2, 1999 at 13:38 [EST]
From: Meg
C. - comparm@email.uc.edu
Age: 5/7/80
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: This website is great! I live in Ohio and go to college. This
site was very helpful for my argument essay against premarital sex. I truly
believe that God intends for us to wait until married to have sex.I am waiting
until I'm married. I have been with my boyfriend for over three years and we
are comitted to wait for each other. We both know that we will get married someday,
but we are determined to not give into temptation. Congratulations to anyone
who is commited to god's given purity, I know it isn't easy! God bless!
Entry of Feb
2, 1999 at 22:22 [EST]
From: Taylor
Brown - Hoosiergal33@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: This is a great website. I have been abstinent for the past
17 years. I am from Indiana. My only hope is that God will help me find the
right man, and that he is also chosen to be abstinent.
Entry of Feb
3, 1999 at 13:38 [EST]
From: Holli
Smith - hosmtih@st1.wou.edu
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Oregon and I am currently in College. I came across
your website when I was looking for information on abstinence for an essay that
I am writing. Keep up the good work, our world needs more people like you who
tell the truth to our youth.
Entry of Feb
3, 1999 at 22:44 [EST]
From: Justin
Mac Donald -
jbmac11@yahoo.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I'm a college student in Arizona. I've been a Christian for
around 3 years, and have committed to abstinence. I dated a great girl who both
her and her family played a huge role in leading me to Christ. We were together
for a long time and had the whole perfect "highschool sweetheart"
image going. We and everyone else thought we would get married. People would
ask why we didn't have sex anyway since we "knew" we would be married.
Well it didn't work out. That's a story I won't make you sit through. The point
is that you never "know". The way I see it is that my virginity is
a precious gift reserved for the woman I will spend the rest of my life with.
Entry of Feb
3, 1999 at 23:34 [EST]
From: Sarah
Miller - smiller41@hotmail.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am a student at Minnesota State University, Mankato, MN.
I am originally from Randall, MN.
Entry of Feb
4, 1999 at 17:36 [EST]
From: Katie
Hoffman - Katiediddles@yahoo.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Vincennes IN. I am in school down there.
Entry of Feb
7, 1999 at 16:52 [EST]
From: Jenny
Yates - jenny_yates@hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: It's really good to know that other people are trying to surrvive
in a world of such immorality. Keep God in sight always and you will succeed!
Entry of Feb
9, 1999 at 00:33 [EST]
From: JANET
M. WOOD - ronwood@cafes.net
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I feel God's hand very strongly in my life right now, and though
I have made this vow long before now, I just look at this as a reminder that
"hey God, here I am - make me and mold me with your love." Yes, in
today's society, this commitment is pretty hard- but not if we're doin' it for
the Lord! We can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. Phil. 4:13
Entry of Feb
10, 1999 at 22:15 [EST]
From: erin
watlington -
arin
l@aol.com
Age: 21
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in NC. I am part of a team called Right 2 wait. We have
a game show that we do to help educate and promote abstinence to teens.
Entry of Feb
10, 1999 at 22:40 [EST]
From: Kelly
Helms - Sunshine1980@usa.net
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I was just searching for some information that I could use
in a paper that I am Writing. It is for my college English class. I am writing
About the myth of "safe sex" before marriage. I just wanted to say
that what you have to say is great. I totally agree. YOu are a real encouragement.
Thanks, Kelly
Entry of Feb
12, 1999 at 09:16 [EST]
From: Dano
- danofh@hotmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Im from kansas i had to do a report on premarital sex and i
agree with this page :)
Entry of Feb
12, 1999 at 14:07 [EST]
From: rebecca
leigh carr -
rebeccacarr@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Other
Comments: live in WV have been abstinent for 19 years going on 20, I
compete in pageants and my platform is abstinence awareness. my abstinence program
is called "GOALS."
Entry of Feb
14, 1999 at 22:55 [EST]
From: stacy
- czelu@worldnet.att.net
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: miami, fl
Entry of Feb
15, 1999 at 13:22 [EST]
From: Ryan
- Ryno23Bull
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: My name is Ryan and I live in NE. I believe that abstinence
is the ONLY safe sex and I hope the Lord rewards all of those who believe the
same and are practicing abstinence. I know that it is hard at times, but your
morals will hold true and keep you from sin. Good luck to all of you out there
who are with me on this one. God Bless you all!
Entry of Feb
15, 1999 at 18:41 [EST]
From: Amy
- Meez@Juno.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Olathe, Kansas. I know, I know, it sounds like hickville,
and how hard could it be to stay pure with so few people around. However Olathe
is growing very rapidly and it only takes one person to pressure you. I signed
a pledge to myself, my parents, God, and my future husband to stay pure until
I'm married and I am not going to let them or myself down!
Entry of Feb
16, 1999 at 19:15 [EST]
From: Annie
Shattuck - STARnSMILE@aol.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: A publication
Comments: I live in Central California, I just recently turned 15 in
the 1st week of February, but have already made the commitment to be sexually
pure till marriage. I made the decision 2 yrs ago, but finally realized the
BIG commitment I made last yr. at a purity conference. And instead of taking
back my commitment now that I realize what I'd done, I made it stronger. I just
started High School in August. I've only had 1 b/f in my life, and he wasn't
a "believer" and I really regret that! I wasn't fullfilling what he
wanted from me, so he broke up w/ me. I learned my lesson the hard way, but
am greatful God was watching out for me. And am thankful I didn't make the biggest
mistake of my life! I'm not really looking for a b/f right now, I want God to
bring him to me.
Entry of Feb
16, 1999 at 21:31 [EST]
From: Carin
N. Cain - sabrina144@hotmail.com
Age: 38
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I rededicated my life to Jesus Christ after my divorce, so
I am sexually pure until RE-marriage, not marriage, or will happily remain pure
for the rest of my life if the Lord does not will to send me a Christian husband.
All honor and praise be to our Lord Jesus! Amen.
Entry of Feb
17, 1999 at 10:55 [EST]
From: Brandon
- nemesis_100@hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Cool web page. I like the way you put life in perspective.
Keep up the good work.
Entry of Feb
18, 1999 at 22:27 [EST]
From: Kristopher
M. Baehr - k_baehr@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I'm from Beatrice, NE. I decided to abstain from sex until
marriage at a very young age. I based the decision on the experiences of my
two older sisters.
Entry of Feb
19, 1999 at 11:13 [EST]
From: Mary
Candice Taylor
- none
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am from an averaged size town in Kentucky and I am strongly
against premarital sex and no matter how many friends (or boyfriends) I have
lost due to this decision.........I will NEVER change.
Entry of Feb
19, 1999 at 22:27 [EST]
From: L.
Letchworth -
LLJUL96@ecu.campus.mci.net
Age: 30+
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Bet you didn't expect to get a response from someone my age!
You can remain abstinent from your youth on with the Lord's help. Who cares
what society says? It is God we have to answer to in the end, not society!
Entry of Feb
20, 1999 at 12:33 [EST]
From: Joshua
Paul Guither
- gman_1999@juno.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Apple Valley, MN and I know the woman I am going
to marry. We both have pledged to each other that we are going to abstain from
sex until marriage. Even though it is hard, we both are trusting in God.
Entry of Feb
20, 1999 at 16:16 [EST]
From: Daniella
Lorincz - Dtreee4@aol.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Link from Ellen's Home Page
Comments:
Entry of Feb
21, 1999 at 00:45 [EST]
From: Nathan
Harrington -
lharring@CapAccess.org
Age: 15
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: This site is quite good. The FAQ answers are very intelligent..
Entry of Feb
22, 1999 at 11:17 [EST]
From: Aissa
Ricarte - gaize69@yahoo.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Other
Comments: Well, all I can say is that I am very thankful for reading
something like this on the net you can say that I even for a young age I admit
I came close to WHATEVER. What made me stop and is what will happen what are
the what if's and why would I want to disappoint my parents when they even trust
me. But after I read all this I found out all the answers I needed to know and
I even had to make a report about abstinence; I actually don't regret coming
across this. I admit this article opened my eyes to reality and it means alot
to me, it made me think more of what are the odds to abstinence. I learned alot.
Thanks alot!!!... alright then byeee... aissa r.
Entry of Feb
22, 1999 at 13:30 [EST]
From: Jillian
- supergirrl@hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Link from Ellen's Home Page
Comments: Spring Grove, IL
Entry of Feb
22, 1999 at 21:17 [EST]
From: FREDERICA
WOODS - ST4738@STUDENT-MAIL.JSU.EDU
Age: 23
How I found your page: Link from Ellen's Home Page
Comments: I am a student at Jackonville State University, in Jacksonville,
Alabama. I have a boyfriend, which we have been going together for three months.
I am pure but he is not. He respects my decision to wait until we are married.
I love him with all my heart. We both made the vow to wait because he doesn't
want to mess up what we have together. It is hard at times. If it wasn't for
the Lord I believe that we would probably mess up and have sex. I did not get
a chance to read everything that you have on your website. What I have read
was pretty good and I think that everyone should read this. I see abstinence
as being a special gift to give my future husband. I also, see it as being pleasing
in God's eyes. That is a wonderful thing to please God. And that's what I want
to do.
Entry of Feb
22, 1999 at 22:55 [EST]
From: Brandi
Roberson - Nephi2@direclynx.net
Age: 15
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Hot Springs Arkansas. I have personally made the
commitment to sexual abstinence until marriage
Entry of Feb
23, 1999 at 01:13 [EST]
From: Erik
Wendell - LWofMN@aol.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: University of Minnesota (Minneapolis, Minnesota)
Entry of Feb
23, 1999 at 17:34 [EST]
From: Natacha
Charles - Tacha_19@Hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Other
Comments: The Lord has been helping me to stay sexually pure for 19 years
now, and I am determine to continue to stay that way till my wedding night.
Entry of Feb
24, 1999 at 15:26 [EST]
From: Jenelle
Zingg - jzingg@edgewood.edu
Age: 21
How I found your page: Link from Ellen's Home Page
Comments: I am a student at Edgewood College in WI. I was looking up
info for a paper and was enlightened in the process.
Entry of Feb
25, 1999 at 10:00 [EST]
From: JJ
- JJ98RAM
Age: 23
How I found your page: Link from Ellen's Home Page
Comments:
Entry of Feb
25, 1999 at 10:46 [EST]
From: Sarah
Koechl - jmajilussauc@hotmail.com
Age: 21
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: God Bless your efforts!
Entry of Feb
25, 1999 at 13:24 [EST]
From: Brian
Graham - swingcat3@juno.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Link from Ellen's Home Page
Comments: Puyallup,WA It's hard guys..but remember. God IS "faithfull,
and will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bare." PRAISE GOD!!!
:-)
Entry of Feb
25, 1999 at 19:44 [EST]
From: Jennifer
Riley - jriley_l@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Other
Comments:
Entry of Feb
25, 1999 at 21:05 [EST]
From: Tara
- roxy_gurl_84@yahoo.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Link from Ellen's Home Page
Comments: I live in California, and I love sports (volleyball and softball)
Entry of Feb
27, 1999 at 11:28 [EST]
From: EMMANUEL
KWARTENG - KWA6488R@UEL.AC.UK
Age: 22
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I AM A FIRST YEAR STUDENT AT THE UNIVERSITY OF EAST LONDON
MAJORING IN COMMUNICATION STUDIES.
Entry of Feb
27, 1999 at 14:30 [EST]
From: Elaine
Lindsey - adidasgirl@hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Link from Ellen's Home Page
Comments: I'm 18 and a virgin. It makes me happy to know that have the
strength to remain one until marriage. I believe that too many problems come
from pre-marital sex and I have enough to worry about without the fear of getting
pregnant or getting some disease!
Entry of Feb
28, 1999 at 01:50 [EST]
From: Christina
McKinnon - chrimck@worldnet.att.net
Age: 23
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: A native of Miami, FL.
Entry of Feb
28, 1999 at 14:05 [EST]
From: Shea
Wages - DEANAW@aol.com
Age: 23
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I am a youth leader at my church, and I think this website
is wonderful!! I have been married to a wonderful guy for almost 2 years, and
I waited until marriage, and let me say, it was the best choice I could have
made!!!!
Entry of Feb
28, 1999 at 18:58 [EST]
From: Ann
Cape - anncape@hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: HI! I made my commitment to stay a virgin when I was 14 in
front of my church and Family. I was in a wonderful program called "True
Love Waits" And It does!!! I was in an abstinent relationship for 2 years
and it was strong and emotional and perfect without having Sex. For all of you
girls out there, the kind of guy that you want to be with will respect you and
treat you well. Most guys are very accepting of this and there are even a few
good ones out there who feel the same way. IF you ever feel alone, just remember,
you are doing the right thing and you are worth waiting for!!! By the way, I
go to school in South Dakota. It is even harder to wait now than it was in High
School, maybe that's why God hasn't sent any men into my life!
Entry of Mar
1, 1999 at 18:54 [EST]
From: dan
prince - tuky91@juno.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: dayton oh.
Entry of Mar
2, 1999 at 13:36 [EST]
From: Aimee
- aimeestaken@yahoo.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I currently reside in NJ. Although it is very hard and tempting,
y boyfriend and I are committing ourselves to abstain from sex before marriage.
We desire in our hearts to make love, not have sex.
Entry of Mar
4, 1999 at 15:50 [EST]
From: jessica
johnston (jes')
- jes_johnston@yahoo.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I go to school at the University of Toledo. I grew up in a
small town, Mt. Pleasant, OH, and my family presently lives in Batavia, OH (near
Cincy). Praise the Lord for strong believers in Christ, who are not of this
world!
Entry of Mar
4, 1999 at 18:54 [EST]
From: Allen
Shaw - publicnet@hotmail.com
Age: 26
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Mar
4, 1999 at 22:23 [EST]
From: Shantreal
L. Forbes - sforbe5@lsu.edu
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Hi! My name is Shantreal L. Forbes, I am a saved, sanctified,
filled with the Holy Ghost,proud virgin, and to all the other virgins out there
congradulations because you have kept the Lord's commandments. Stay a virgin
until you get married. Do not let the devil tempt you to do otherwise because
the best gift you can give to your mate on the honeymoon is yourself. STAY A
VIRGIN AND HAVE A BLESSED DAY! AND REMEMBER, JESUS IS LORD!!!!!!!!!!
Entry of Mar
5, 1999 at 15:48 [EST]
From: Tiffany
- ferny22@yahoo.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am proud to be a virgin because I know that this is God's
will. I am waiting until marriage. (Wyoming)
Entry of Mar
7, 1999 at 16:27 [EST]
From: Kendra
Keels - kk_1@hotmail.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Gresham Oregon other wise knows as the "rain
state"
Entry of Mar
7, 1999 at 22:24 [EST]
From: Mary
grace santos
- mgb_14@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Mar
8, 1999 at 18:32 [EST]
From: Mark
Edelbrock - gjedel@hotmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Dallas
Entry of Mar
9, 1999 at 16:10 [EST]
From: Edyael
Casaperalta -
edycasa@hotmail.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Other
Comments: In a small town in Texas, Where SEX is all over the place.
You can even find sex in the school !!!!!! I think staying virgin is a privilege
more than an embarrasment, besides you have a lot more to offer when you get
married. If the person loves you enough , they will be able to wait. :)
Entry of Mar
9, 1999 at 16:14 [EST]
From: Lesa
K. McDonald -
lesam@gemini-coatings.com
Age: 42
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I'm a divorced mom of a 17 year old; God has finally gotten
through to me. It's His way, or no way! I want to hold to the same standard
I'm asking my daughter to.
Entry of Mar
9, 1999 at 18:04 [EST]
From: Christopher
Stout - GodSword2000@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in St. Louis, MO. As a teenager in this particular generation,
I feel making a commitment to sexual abstinence is especially hard for me. I
just want to be able to look my future bride in the eyes and tell her that I
have waited for her. The gift of purity is the greatest thing two people can
give eachother. God bless you all!
Entry of Mar
10, 1999 at 08:09 [EST]
From: Ahmad
Al-Mutawa - s961327@kfupm.edu.sa
Age: 20
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: Hi, I got to your website At LAST! Your websit is very cool!
And I like it alot. I wish you the best and improvement to better. Thanks. Ahmad
Al-Mutawa --Saudi Arabia, Dhahran
Entry of Mar
11, 1999 at 16:07 [EST]
From: n.
guillot - ng408696@oak.cats.ohiou.edu
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: nw ohio/se michigan
Entry of Mar
12, 1999 at 15:46 [EST]
From: Theresa
Burrage - tburraget@liggett.com
Age: 26
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Mar
14, 1999 at 15:17 [EST]
From: Alyssa
- Goofyam8@hotmail.com
Age: 13
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in New York, and i'm doing a project on this, and this
site was very helpful, thanks!
Entry of Mar
14, 1999 at 20:49 [EST]
From: Lindsey
Hill - lhill4@lsu.edu
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Mar
15, 1999 at 11:13 [EST]
From: Lisa
- juliet@exploremaine.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Auburn, ME high school senior born-again christian
Entry of Mar
15, 1999 at 18:53 [EST]
From: Rosemary
Fay Bates - DulceRosie@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Other
Comments:
Entry of Mar
16, 1999 at 18:58 [EST]
From: Whitney
Olson - bolson@kalama.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Well, when i found this site i decided i should share my opinion.
Sexual abstinance until marriage is such a great thing. I have decided for myself
that if God has given us a partner who is right for us, the least we can do
is to remain pure and wait for the day when you can look that person in the
eyes and say, " i have saved myself for you." that would be the greatest
gift you could ever give, yourself. I hope that someday i will be able to have
my future partner say the same thing to me.
Entry of Mar
17, 1999 at 08:13 [EST]
From: marie
- check.mail@eudoramail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Hey ppl! I'm a Christian girl living in asia..and I want to
tell all of you that I totally agree with everything this site has to offer!...Yes..
God made man and woman to "go forth and multiply" but it doesn't mean
before marriage! Sex is a sacred thing and we should treat it and ourselves
with respect....So to all you God-fearing and intelligent people out there!!!
Keep up the good work..I know some day its gonna pay off! :)
Entry of Mar
18, 1999 at 12:51 [EST]
From: TYEISHA
SUDBERRY - NONE
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: THIS IS A GREAT WEBSITE. PREMARITAL SEX IS WHAT I AM DOING
A REPORT ON AND WE AS PEOPLE ARE NOT STRONG ENOUGH TO HANDLE OUR FLESHLY DESIRES
ALONE. WE HAVE TO RECOGNIZE THAT OUR STRENGTH COMES FROM THE LORD, AND ITS GREAT
THAT YOU HAVE THIS WEBSITE OUT ON THE INTERNET BECAUSE ITS HERE WHERE YOU WILL
FIND ALL TYPES OF AGE GROUPS. SEX IS GOOD. ANYTHING ORDAINED FROM GOD IS GOOD.
BUT YOU CANNOT FEEL THE FULLNESS OF THAT IF YOUR NOT IN THE POSITION TO RECIEVE,
AND IN THIS CASE THAT POSITION IS MARRIAGE. SO IF YOU THINK SEX IS GOOD WHEN
YOUR NOT MARRIED, HOW DO YOU THINK IT IS GOING TO FEEL WHEN YOUR DOING IT ON
GODS TIME WHEN YOU ARE MARRIED? GOD HONORS THOSE WHO ARE PURE AND OBEDIENT TO
HIS WORD AND HIS WILL, SO PLEASE WAIT BECAUSE SEX IN MARRIAGE CREATES LIFE,
BUT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE CREATES DEATH.
Entry of Mar
19, 1999 at 20:20 [EST]
From: Felicity
Warren - userfsw@aol.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Emmett, Idaho and for as long as i can remember i
have been taught not to have sex out of marriage. I grew up in a Christian house.
Now I have a boyfriend with the same views as i do. We've been together for
three years (since i was 14)! I just thank God everyday for the testimony I
have. If anyone would like to talk to me, please feel free to e.mail me.
Entry of Mar
20, 1999 at 12:42 [EST]
From: Kendra
Lane - lanekm@jmu.edu
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am right now a student at James Madison University, but I
am from Northern Virginia. I think that it is so important for people to be
aware that there are others their age who are willing to wait until they are
married to make a committment such as sex to another person.
Entry of Mar
20, 1999 at 17:05 [EST]
From: Mike
Miller - mcmiller@learn.senecac.on.ca
Age: 22
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: Toronto, Ontario, Canada. I am not a Christian, but I am waiting
until I am married before I have sex. I was starting to think that I was the
only virgin left in the world or something, because I have never met anyone
else who is abstinent (I am especially isolated living in a college residence).
It is a great relief to know that there are still girls out there who are saving
themselves, and who will not think I'm odd for doing so. Please feel free to
e-mail me.
Entry of Mar
21, 1999 at 18:09 [EST]
From: josh
Salton - mrobertson1@weber.edu
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: neat place you got here. I live in Utah
Entry of Mar
22, 1999 at 17:52 [EST]
From: Janine
Mayfield - j9ksr@yahoo.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in the Buckeye State!!! I believe in abstinence. I was
even in a "club" called CATS; which stands for Caring About Teen Sexuality.
And went around to local schools talking about why I choose to remain abstinent.
Only one problem, I flirt like WAY too much. (if you get my drift.) I know..i
hate it..but it's a bad habit..i just can't stop. I'm immune to men!! AHHH!!
Entry of Mar
22, 1999 at 22:47 [EST]
From: Kara
Lea Forrest -
Daisy13KLF@aol
Age: 14
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Mar
22, 1999 at 23:46 [EST]
From: Alberta
Brown III - Brownai@tribe.nlu.edu
Age: 20
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Monroe,LA. I really injoyed reading about this. I
am glad to know there are people out there who are waiting til marriage like
me.
Entry of Mar
23, 1999 at 14:25 [EST]
From: Verona
Dee - sincere@mindless.com
Age: 24
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I reside in the middle of the bible belt in Oklahoma City,
OK. I waited until I got married to have sex...eventually the marriage didn't
last and I cannot say that it was anyone's fault. However, since my divorce
I have resumed my stand on abstinence and have been for two years now. I look
forward to each day and though I have been single since my divorce (probably
due to the fact I am abstinent) then I know that when the right man comes along
it will be right in the fact that he will respect my opinions, views, and decisions
and not try to turn me away from what is right. I have a two year old son from
my marriage and it's hard because most men think that I should be having sex
because of my son and I cannot understand this nor do I want to. I know what
is right for me and hope that others do too. Prayer is power and power comes
from prayer. God Bless!
Entry of Mar
24, 1999 at 16:06 [EST]
From: Bert
Clayton - jiubee@aol.com
Age: 33
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I live in Charleston, SC. I am a christian man that strives
to maintain my integrity. But very frustrated because I can't find women who
share my values. Too much American, 90's mentality, politics and culture. I
am an upbeat kind of guy, but was hoping to find resources to connect me to
like minded ladies. Dating services aren't it. And going to bars would violate
my convictions. I don't know anyone who has a zeal for purity that could introduce
me to others. I like keeping busy to avoid the idle thoughts that can lead to
lust. But I just don't know where to go. I keep bees, interested in herbs and
gardening, like self defense, outdoor activities. Alot to offer a lady who is
content with a Godly lifestyle. Can you give any ideas? References?
Entry of Mar
24, 1999 at 17:25 [EST]
From: Andrea
Regino - a_regino@hotmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: My name is Andrea Regino and I live in Gatesville,Tx. I am
doing a research paper on the dangers of having premartial sex. It has been
a hard road for me since I was 11,but I have found that all I really needed
was God's direction in my life. Thanx for making this websight. Andrea Regino
Entry of Mar
24, 1999 at 21:28 [EST]
From: Kristie
Kempston - kempstonk@lrc.edu
Age: 18
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: I go to school at Lenoir-Rhyne College in Hickory, NC. I made
the promise to myself, my future husband, and to God when I was 14 at Vacation
Bible School. I am currently writing a paper for my English class on sexual
abstinence. I have never felt so strongly about something in my life! I hope
my future husband has done the same for me, and I pray for him.
Entry of Mar
25, 1999 at 01:52 [EST]
From: Kelenia
Olsen - Gtulip02@aol.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Other
Comments: