
Here is what some previous guests have written about their commitment to abstinence:
Entry of Mar
27, 1999 at 11:18 [EST]
From: Fannie
Ong - Fann_obc@yahoo.com
Age: 23
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am from Malaysia.
Age: 22
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: It's definitely not the easiest choice, but it's worth it.
NY
Entry of Mar
28, 1999 at 18:24 [EST]
From: Jill
Marie - chantel55@gurlmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: my older sister got pregnant at 15, miscarried, then again
at 16. i think that things like this help out a lot of people, especially teens,
because it reassures us that we're not alone. thank you so much for this page!!
Entry of Mar
28, 1999 at 23:03 [EST]
From: Your
Mom, Cathy Tift
- RTift@sirus.com
Age: 56
How I found your page: Link from Ellen's Home Page
Comments: I enjoy reading your guest's comments, and to know there are
so many making this committment. Your Dad and I have never regretted waiting
until we were married. I can't imagine being at risk for all the diseases out
there. God Bless!
Entry of Mar
29, 1999 at 18:46 [EST]
From: Laura
Pearson - lp917@yahoo.com
Age: 21
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: My fiance and I have decided to wait until after our wedding.
We have had sex with each other in the past, but we have decided that waiting
until we are married will strengthen our relationship and show our commitment
to each other and to God.
Entry of Mar
30, 1999 at 09:34 [EST]
From: Drew
Biscup - drew221@juno.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I live in Little Valley NY, right next to the Indian Reservation.
Entry of Mar
30, 1999 at 12:25 [EST]
From: natacha
placide - franceska@hotmail.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Miramar, FL
Entry of Mar
30, 1999 at 14:20 [EST]
From: NAKESHA
TIBBS - NTYZON@yahoo.com
Age: 24
How I found your page: Other
Comments: Harvey,IL
Entry of Mar
30, 1999 at 23:10 [EST]
From: Luz
Angela - Nena
x18x@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I believe that everyone should wait until marriage. Although
I am being weakened by the opposite sex. I pray and pray that I have enough
strength to hold on to my purity. The prom is coming soon and that will be my
ultimate test.
Entry of Mar
30, 1999 at 23:33 [EST]
From: Darci
- darsilly@aol.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Link from Ellen's Home Page
Comments: hello all. i'm from MI. God is sooo great!! I just can not
praise Him enough. I thank Him for keeping me pure and for the convictions He
has given me. Be encourage all...this is totally going to benefit us in the
end. God only works things out for the GOOD of those who love Him.
Entry of Apr
1, 1999 at 21:25 [EST]
From: Jamie
- mechstep@sowest.net
Age: 14
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: This page helped me out alot. I am doing a debat on sex befor
marriage is wrong. And I DO agree
Entry of Apr
1, 1999 at 21:35 [EST]
From: Jamie
- Mechstep@sowest.net
Age: 14
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am really proud to be defending sex befor marriage is wrong
in a debate. this page has given me lots of imformation i couldn't find.
Entry of Apr
2, 1999 at 14:58 [EST]
From: Allison
Dawson - ACDAWSON@HOTMAIL.COM
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in SW Georgia, and I am currently attending Tuskegee
University in Alabama. I made my commitment to abstinence the day after Valentine's
Day in 1998. I guess I have claimed secondary virginity. I think it was a big
mistake when I lost my virginty because it was a result of peer pressure. All
my friends were doing it and sometimes they made me feel like an outsider because
I wasn't doing it. I tried several times to reclaim my virginity but my ex-boyfriend
didn't understand what I was trying to do because almost every time that we
got together something happened. So I prayed and I prayed to God to save me
from this trap and a few weeks after Valentine's Day we broke up. He came all
the way to my school to tell me that he had gotten another girl pregant, now
you can not tell me that this wasn't a sign from God. If that wasn't then I
don't know what else is. It has been very hard maintaining secondary virginity
becaus everywhere you look there's something promoting sexual activity, whether
it's on TV or in a song, but I refuse to give up on this battle.
Entry of Apr
3, 1999 at 07:11 [EST]
From: Elize
Stols - e_stols@yahoo.com
Age: 21
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Apr
4, 1999 at 16:49 [EST]
From: daniel
rick - honor7@excite.com
Age: 26
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I am originally from montana and now am a college student in
Utah. I am not mormon. I am a virgin, although have come exremely close, and
a lot closer than I ever should have come to losing it. I would certainly welcome
making new friends.
Entry of Apr
4, 1999 at 19:47 [EST]
From: Kristen
Detwiler - Krisca@chesco.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I really like your site. I'm a homeschool student and I had
a health credit to finish up so I decided to do it on virginity since I'm fully
commited to save sex for marriage. Your site has been a great help with my paper,
(I'm citing it properly of course). Just when I think that there isn't anyone
else out there who's commited to wait I come across something like this. Thanks.
Entry of Apr
5, 1999 at 04:11 [EST]
From: artchie
belcena - artch@mailcity.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: you have a good site but i think the documents written on this
site is not complete, there are no definitions of premarital sex. and also the
origin. but anyway salamat! and i live at pasay city, Philippines [okay,
the ORIGIN of sex before marriage? uh...well...I'm pretty sure it goes waaaaay
back, as for the first documented incidence, I'm sorry I do not know. And the
definition of permarital sex... that would be sex before marriage.]
Entry of Apr
6, 1999 at 21:14 [EST]
From: Corrine
- faith_in_love@hotmail.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Apr
6, 1999 at 21:49 [EST]
From: Jenni
- LilTank18@aol.com
Age: 14
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: How would you talk to your parents if you got pregnant? Would
you tell them? Just think of all the hurt inside of you if you were to have
an abortion or were to be pregnant and not tell your parents. It rewens your
reputation and not just that you have to live with the stess you put your self
through. I just have one thing to say think about what GOD would do and go in
his steps and not what other people think is the right decision because not
everyone is right. Believe in yourself and succeed without going through what
some people have to......
Entry of Apr
8, 1999 at 21:15 [EST]
From: Jack
Ryan - firehawk41@aol.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I like this page!!! It's so good to know I'm not alone in abstaining!
Daniel 6:1
Entry of Apr
9, 1999 at 11:09 [EST]
From: Cameraun
Azwar - shadow1938@yahoo.com
Age:
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: Ontario, Canada
Entry of Apr
10, 1999 at 05:54 [EST]
From: Chris
Morris - chris@mozza23.freeserve.co.uk
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: i am a new-christian from england and have been saved!! since
getting a copy of the bible i have seen all the things that god wants and have
agreed to follow them.thus saving sex inside marriage.as it is gods gift to
married people.and pre-marital sex is foolish because it hinders and breaks
realationships. Thank you god for showing me the way!!!!!!!!!!!!
Entry of Apr
10, 1999 at 18:54 [EST]
From: Rebekah
Hawker - blonde_babe3@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Hmmm...I live in Arizona. All I have to say is that my sister,
who is 20, and I have decided to wait until we are married to have sex and we're
really hoping that a couple of guys out there are waiting as well. I'll leave
you with this: Love hurts and heals, but premarital sex makes the heart ache
for a lifetime. God bless all of you on your endeavor to remain pure! ~Rebekah~
:-)
Entry of Apr
11, 1999 at 18:03 [EST]
From: Amanda
Brown - Brown5635@Hotmail.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in Sharpsville,Indiana. How I found this web site is
that I am doing a research paper on sexual purity for school. I signed a True
love waits paper with my parents guidance when I was 12 and I have a purity
ring that my parents bought for me and everyone I know knows that I am sexually
pure by this ring.
Entry of Apr
11, 1999 at 20:21 [EST]
From: Christy
- n/a
Age: 19
How I found your page: Other
Comments: Kentucky
Entry of Apr
11, 1999 at 20:22 [EST]
From: Troy
- n/a
Age: 22
How I found your page: Other
Comments: Kentucky
Entry of Apr
12, 1999 at 00:50 [EST]
From: Todd
Lewis - tlewis@snowcrest.net
Age: 31
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Northern California. I had made this choice a VERY long time
ago.
Entry of Apr
12, 1999 at 05:09 [EST]
From: Marcus
Riley - marcusriley@hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Hi everybody. I am with all of you with this promise. And girls,
there are plenty of guys out there who totally want to wait, so don't be discouraged.
I wish you all the best, and I will pray for you to be strong. Please pray for
me too. I have been in a relationship for a few months now, my first actually,
and I am very serious about keeping it pure. I love my future wife so much that
the thought of doing anything to hurt her makes me feel guilty. God bless all
of you for your devotion to what's right.
Entry of Apr
14, 1999 at 00:09 [EST]
From: Matt
Bunker - atchu276@yahoo.com
Age: 22
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in Granite City,Il. I have not always thought about
abstinence until I came back to Christ and became the assistant youth pastor.
When I came back to Christ I then I knew that I shouldn't have sex until i got
married. Now I regret haveing sex before I got married. Now I have taken the
oath to wait untill I get married for the next time I have sex.
Entry of Apr
14, 1999 at 00:12 [EST]
From: Joe
Ferrucci - joe_ferrucci@ccnmail.com
Age: 42
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Hammond, LA, just started a singles ministry & attend
two others. I've been divorced about a year & I'm committed to Jesus, which
also includes abstinence as long as I remain unmarried.
Entry of Apr
14, 1999 at 17:57 [EST]
From: Kristi
- gilreathk@midkan.net
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Salina, Kansas and I am a True Love Waits advocate.
I am getting married in December and both my partner and I have chosen abstinence
until our wedding night. Because of our decision, our relationship with each
and with God is stronger.
Entry of Apr
14, 1999 at 21:30 [EST]
From: CAREY
PARADIS - ORANGY_17@HOTMAIL.COM
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I'M FROM VIRGINIA
Entry of Apr
14, 1999 at 21:38 [EST]
From: Katie
L. Curtis - kcurtis9@hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments:
Entry of Apr
15, 1999 at 11:43 [EST]
From: Nichalla
Hawk - hawk_nichalla@hotmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I'm from Orlando,Fla and I would like to say that Sex is not
the most important thing in life to have. People sometimes make mistake and
wish they was a virgin and that's apart of a sexual life. Being a virgin is
the best one to be until they are married but some don't see that. Say no before
you can say yes. ENABL, thanks.
Entry of Apr
15, 1999 at 19:07 [EST]
From: Nicole
Shuder - nshuder@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Apr
16, 1999 at 10:07 [EST]
From: PATRICIA
- TICIA001@HOTMAIL.COM
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Apr
17, 1999 at 19:53 [EST]
From: Mindee
Wright - mindee_s_w@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: This is a great website! I'm doing a report on abstinence,
and I'll be using some of the information! I live in Ohio, and I decided about
5 years ago to remain abstinent. I know that I couldn't face myself, God, or
my future husband if I were to have sex before marriage. I thank God for being
with me in my decision, and for giving me the courage to stick with my decision!
Praise God!!! : )
Entry of Apr
17, 1999 at 21:30 [EST]
From: Jen
- Jenny@easynet.ca
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Guelph, Ontario. I'm one of those Canadians eh? Great
site and thank-you for all of the information, it has really made me think.
For a while I was begining to think that I was one of the only virgins left
on this planet. Feel free to e-mail me.
Entry of Apr
17, 1999 at 23:08 [EST]
From: Carrie
Burris - CarrieX@webtv.net
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in St. Petersburg PA. As you can see im 18 years old.
Ive never had sex, and i definately plan on waiting till marriage. Until you
walk down the aisle and have a ring on your finger, you don't know that a person
is the one for you.
Entry of Apr
18, 1999 at 15:36 [EST]
From: Molly
Dale - MadGina98@aol.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I live in Springfield,IL and I just wanted to say that I think
its great that there is a site like this for young people. I am doing a speech
on premarital sex in one of my classes because I think that it is important
that people know that they are not alone in the way they feel about abstinence.
Thanks for this web site!
Entry of Apr
19, 1999 at 16:31 [EST]
From: Trish
Morgan - plmjep@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am originally from Albany but I am attending college in Valdosta,
GA. I have decided to remain abstinence until the glorious day with my husband.
Not to say there are some things I would not do again I have never had sex.
For the Lord say "Flee from sexually immorality, it is the only sin that
is to our own body. All other sins are done outside of the body." I Corinthians
6:18
Entry of Apr
19, 1999 at 17:05 [EST]
From: Chris
Gaskin - baritone98@yahoo.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: West Point, MS
Entry of Apr
19, 1999 at 17:27 [EST]
From: Amber
Van Hale - wrissi_d@hotmail.com
Age: 21
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I'm from MN. Thanks so much for the info on the site. I made
the choice to remain abstinent until marriage when I was 16. I have been fortunate
to have many friends that also share my beliefs. (Because we all know that makes
it so much easier.) My boyfriend now, who is also probably one of my best friends,
is one of my biggest supporters as far as this goes. The fact that we had both
made the commitment to remain sexually pure until marriage was actually the
topic of one of our very first conversations with each other. So it may not
be easy but it can be done. If anyone wants to talk about it I'd be more than
willing.
Entry of Apr
19, 1999 at 19:55 [EST]
From: Sarah
Wilson - sarahdawn_gk@yahoo.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I live in Sparks, Nevada and I go to the University of Nevada,
Reno. I'm so glad there's a website like this enforcing abstinence because it
is soooo important and virginity is such a special gift that God has given us.
Entry of Apr
19, 1999 at 21:20 [EST]
From: Donella
- Seraph_Soul@yahoo.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: I think this page is very helpful and imformative. Alot of
us don't know exactly what the Bible says about premarital sex, but this page
lets us know everything that we may have a question about. Kentucky < that's
where I live.
Entry of Apr
20, 1999 at 01:25 [EST]
From: Joan
- Daffy304@bellsouth.net
Age: 25
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I'm a Floridian and am looking to find a site where I can meet
other singles committed to sexual abstinence
Entry of Apr
20, 1999 at 09:56 [EST]
From: Tusday
Dudley - none
Age: 14
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I feel abstinence is the way to be. There are far too many
STD's and un-wanted pregnancies. I have to wait until I find that special someone!
Entry of Apr
20, 1999 at 15:43 [EST]
From: Becky
Pugh - Jue-Jue@excite.com
Age: 14
How I found your page: Other
Comments: Metropolis Illinois
Entry of Apr
20, 1999 at 23:10 [EST]
From: mc
- hhhscsa@aol.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: i feel that sex should wait till marriage so it will be alot
more special for us . i live in ny
Entry of Apr
21, 1999 at 13:42 [EST]
From: Dewaynia
Wilson - dlwilso2@uncg.edu
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Apr
21, 1999 at 22:35 [EST]
From: FELICIA
KELLY - FEFE1603@AOL.COM
Age: 22
How I found your page: Other
Comments: NEWARK, NJ I HAVE BEEN CELIBATE FOR OVER 4 YEARS. IF I HAD
KNOW THE INFORMATION THAT I KNOW NOW, I WOULD NOT HAVE MADE MANY OF THE MISTAKES
I HAVE MADE. I THANK GOD THAT HE HAS GIVEN ME ANOTHER CHANCE TO START OVER.
I MUST ADMIT THAT THIS IS NOT AN EASY LIFESTYLE TO LIVE, BUT IT CAN BE DONE.
WITH GOD, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE.
Entry of Apr
22, 1999 at 19:19 [EST]
From: Leatha
Tukes - lecotu1@ev1.net
Age: 31
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Missouri City, TX
Entry of Apr
22, 1999 at 22:57 [EST]
From: Steve
- stinksteve@aol.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: This is a great site! I had to do a speech on abstinence and
this page gave me the information that I couldn't find at the school library.
Thank you!!! I'm from California.
Entry of Apr
23, 1999 at 12:59 [EST]
From: Pez
Ater - aterteentruckin@hotmail.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments:
Entry of Apr
26, 1999 at 11:47 [EST]
From: Adam
- PimpdaddyZoo@yahoo.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: It's God's will and it makes sense!
Entry of Apr
26, 1999 at 12:21 [EST]
From: Dylan
Otto - dylanotto@yahoo.com
Age: 24
How I found your page: Link from Ellen's Home Page
Comments: I live in Boulder CO I work with an Abstinence group called
the Pure Love Alliance www.purelove.org the site needs some work so please e-mail
me if you have some ideas.
Entry of Apr
27, 1999 at 08:54 [EST]
From: Heather
- none
Age: 16
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: God tells us that sex is God's gift to married people and we
should wait until we are married, but that's not the only reason to wait. I'm
waiting because I know it is best and that I will never have to worry like a
lot of my friends at school.
Entry of Apr
27, 1999 at 09:04 [EST]
From: Heather
- none
Age: 16
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: In Salem there are so many teen mothers and regret having kids.
I know that I do not ever want to have children or ever have to worry about
it until I am ready. Also, the Bible tells us that we are to wait until we are
married because sex is God's gift to married people.
Entry of Apr
27, 1999 at 09:34 [EST]
From: JANET
- dreamer_60622@yahoo.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Other
Comments:
Entry of Apr
27, 1999 at 12:09 [EST]
From: Kimberly
Clark - KClark@marakon.com
Age: 30
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Apr
29, 1999 at 10:52 [EST]
From: Nathan
Bendik - twanto@yahoo.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am from Pa. Everything on your website made so much sense!
I'll never have sex again!
Entry of Apr
29, 1999 at 13:14 [EST]
From: Janeen
Mears - student.@bellarmine.edu/jmears01
Age: 21
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments:
Entry of Apr
30, 1999 at 10:21 [EST]
From: Angela
Moon - I
don't have an address
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I'm doing a persuasive speech on against premarital sex, wish
me luck!
Entry of Apr
30, 1999 at 13:08 [EST]
From: Sarah
Germanceri -
sgermanc@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am from Greenville, IL and I attend Greenville College. I
am committed to waiting for the man God has for me. I believe that is so important
to live a life of sexual purity before marriage; it saves you from so much heartache
and other problems that I have seen other people go through because of they
did not wait. I look forward to my wedding day when I can tell my husband that
I waited for him!
Entry of May
3, 1999 at 12:25 [EST]
From: Cathleen
Miller - destiny2223@aol.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of May
3, 1999 at 18:49 [EST]
From: Bethany
- blgaddie@webmail.bellsouth.net
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Louisville, Ky
Entry of May
4, 1999 at 11:44 [EST]
From: ERIN
- ecurley@ramapo.edu
Age: 18
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments:
Entry of May
5, 1999 at 03:16 [EST]
From: Cinnamon
Eyer - Fair_Lady@hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I have held this position all of my life, and I have known
many who did not. All I will say is that I know I won't regret waiting. I found
this page because I am doing a speech for my college class on abstinence.
Entry of May
6, 1999 at 11:42 [EST]
From: Sarah
Schall - sschall@falcon.lhup.edu
Age: 21
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I live in State College, Pennsylvania and attend Lock Haven
University. I am happily married to my wonderful husband, Mike. We both made
a commitment to God and each other to remain sexual abstinent until marriage.
It is the best decision I have ever made! Definately worth it!
Entry of May
10, 1999 at 17:27 [EST]
From: Jaclyn
Wilkerson - commited429@hotmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I made this commitment to God when I was about 13 or 14. I
desire to please him, and keep purity for my future husband. Oh by the way I
live in Texas.
Entry of May
10, 1999 at 21:26 [EST]
From: Meghan
McCann - megblueyes@aol.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: New Orleans
Entry of May
11, 1999 at 13:02 [EST]
From: liz
- grlwndr112@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in San jose, CA and I just wanted to say that if your
thinking about having sex: DON'T its not worth it. If you have: try second virginity
Entry of May
11, 1999 at 13:32 [EST]
From: Patrice
- tricey001@yahoo.com
Age: 23
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: i live in our nation's capital, the SE side.
Entry of May
12, 1999 at 13:50 [EST]
From: Sarah
Meyer - sarah6434@webtv.net
Age: 23
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Eden Prairie, MN. I know the pressures out there
and have seen the hurt that can result from premarital sex. I am encouraged
by God's Word to remain faithful to Him alone.
Entry of May
12, 1999 at 16:13 [EST]
From: Morgan
Stewart - s_morgan@mailcity.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Link from Ellen's Home Page
Comments: I live in Brandon, Mississippi (by the reservoir). It is ten
minutes from my school, University Christian School.
Entry of May
13, 1999 at 14:58 [EST]
From: Danny
- Vallejojd@yahoo.com
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Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I'm into meeting new people who share an open mind with me
and from me to you as well so e-mail me for any purpose
Entry of May
13, 1999 at 15:56 [EST]
From: Amber
Collins - Ambygoatgruff@yahoo.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Other
Comments: Kansas
Entry of May
14, 1999 at 17:34 [EST]
From: Jen
- hoopsgal12@aol.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Hey there! I am a student at James Madison Univeristy in Harrisonburg,
VA. I too have made the commitment to wait until marriage, but I am having a
hard time finding others, especially guys, who feel the same way. I would like
to encourage everybody to make this pledge of abstinence because even though
you may feel alone, being able to share the most intimate of things with only
your life partner will be well worth the wait. :-)
Entry of May
14, 1999 at 23:14 [EST]
From: Trina
Rivera - Concha84@yahoo.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: yo, i live in Redlands, California and i want to be abstinent
until marriage cuz i dont want to have a baby yet. i want to have a baby when
i finish college so then i can have all my education done so i dont have to
worry bout it. Also, so i can get my aplication to be a vet, cuz i love animals,
cuz i have two dogs, two cats, some fish, and a mouse. The animals i want to
get is a peranah, a scorpion, and a snake.
Entry of May
15, 1999 at 08:24 [EST]
From: Shila
- Shilove82@aol.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Other
Comments: Hi! I'm from Iowa and there aren't a whole lot of guys around
here that are commited to abstinence. None that I am positive of at my school.
It would be neat if I had some people that share this joy/struggle with me to
chat with! Well I'm glad I found this site! :)
Entry of May
16, 1999 at 18:56 [EST]
From: Dave
- rancidbiscuit@hotmail.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Grand Rapids, MI, and I can't say that I know many
people who share this view. This is a great site because it's easy to feel like
we're alone in this view, even though we're not. If anyone wants to talk, feel
free to e-mail me:)
Entry of May
17, 1999 at 11:30 [EST]
From: Kat
- katamac.02
Age: 14
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: I live in Illnois, I am not a virgin, and I've been hurt by
guys a lot. Be careful, don't get hurt.
Entry of May
18, 1999 at 08:54 [EST]
From: Emilia
K. - emimaria@nic.mpt.com.mk
Age: 19
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I'm almost 20 and I'm so incredibly thankful to God for giving
me the wisdom and strength to stay a virgin! I am absolutely determined to wait
until I marry the Man of My life, to whom I will give my body and my heart!
I have such peace knowing that I'm waiting the way God intended me to. It's
not true freedom to be able to have sex when you want, but to be free from the
dilemma whether or not to give in, and from the guilt and catastrophic consequences
afterwards! Once you totally resolve to wait, it's not that hard because GOD
MAKES YOU ABLE. Most people regret having sex early, but I don't know of anyone
that's regretted waiting! PLEASE FEEL FREE TO E-MAIL ME! :)
Entry of May
18, 1999 at 19:39 [EST]
From: mellissa
baxter - BEEKIDS5
Age: 15
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: i live in missouri but im moving to wiscosin
Entry of May
19, 1999 at 18:29 [EST]
From: Sara
Hitchcock - saralizzy@juno.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in Vancouver, Washington and I probably would not have
found this webpage if it wasn't for an assignment in my health class.
Entry of May
21, 1999 at 07:09 [EST]
From: Bert
Clayton - Jiubee@aol.com
Age: 33
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in Charleston, SC and am an Orthodox Christian. I abstain
from sexual relationships and do my best to exemplify Christ. Sex is about creation
and mans'relation to God. I feel for the children who are out there who don't
even know who there daddy is because they were a result of self gratification.
Sex is also sacred, which consider the womb of Mary is equated with the temple
which Christ entered and was carried until his birth.Feel free to contact me.
Entry of May
22, 1999 at 10:16 [EST]
From: Jennifer
- jennptenn@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Hi! My name is Jennifer and I live in Tennessee, but I am moving
to GA in 2 1/2 months, to transfer to Toccoa Falls College. I have personally
committed to God that I will not kiss another man until my wedding day, saving
everything for my future husband, whoever he may be. I made this decision in
March of 1999, and I wear a silver purity band on my lfet hand symbolizing this
covenant. I would be interested in hearing from other college kids who have
made this same commitment! God Bless! Psalm 37:4 <><
Entry of May
23, 1999 at 11:28 [EST]
From: Katie
Seibel - Katie24_7@yahoo.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I have made up my mind to remain chaste until after marriage
and making this decision has made it alot easier to say no when sex comes up.
Entry of May
27, 1999 at 13:28 [EST]
From: liz
- lmorby@hotmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I have commited to not have sex to marriage because so many
things can happen to a person and I don't want to get hurt.
Entry of May
27, 1999 at 17:48 [EST]
From: Penny
Vitoroulis -
Hrissi99@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: My name is Penny and I'm from Linden,NJ. I have made a commitment
to wait until marriage before having sex. I think it is very important to wait
for many different reasons and I am determined to keep that promise to myself
despite what others say.
Entry of May
28, 1999 at 02:00 [EST]
From: Jesena
Lopez - girltaz1@yahoo.com
Age: 25
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I live in Santa Rosa, CA. I moved here from Colorado (went
there for college), but originally from Santa Barbara county. Anyone interested
in a true friend that cares about God's children and wants to have a God-centered
environment or friendship.....please correspond. My personal quote is "It's
God's way, not the highway." I'm a recovered virgin, this time I'm waiting
for God to say when. Say radical for Christ! ;)
Entry of May
30, 1999 at 01:25 [EST]
From: Dave
Rodriguez - speedyjr7@aol.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: This site prevented me from checking out the Asian Porn Gallery
just one listing above this in Yahoo search. I don't know why it was there,
but thank you God once again.
Entry of May
31, 1999 at 16:25 [EST]
From: Jennifer
(Jen) - kinkers@fuse.net
Age: 14
How I found your page: Other
Comments: Hello everyone!!! I live in Ohio and am getting ready for high
school. I am soo nervous,you wouldn't even believe! Yeah, I'm really excited
but i'm scared of all the pressures and stuff. Especially of sex. I'm not interested
in getting involved in it outside of marriage, but I'm afraid of the pressures
or maybe someday i may be put in the situation where the urge is just too great.
A lot of people know that I've made the commitment to not have sex outside of
marriage, but a lot of them don't believe that I will accomplish this. This
is what really scares me. My family and close friends all support my decision
greatly and encourage it very much. But there has been so many peopel that tell
me that I won't be able to do it. I know that sex is a very special thing, and
that is why i want to save it for that special someone, and only them-my husband.
Though it may be hard, i'm a very determined girl who believes in herself and
that she can make it in this world remaining abstinent until marriage!
Entry of Jun
1, 1999 at 13:04 [EST]
From: Cory
Malich - Gymnist543
Age: 14
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Ohio. I am getting ready to go into High School and
am a little nervous. But I promised myself that I won't do anything to screw
up my High School years! :) (I definatley plan on keeping that promise!)
Entry of Jun
3, 1999 at 14:36 [EST]
From: Heather
- heather.fitzpatrick@dowjones.com
Age: 24
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I am a single mother of 2. I made a commitment to God over
3 years ago to wait untill marriage. I've made a lot of mistakes and know now
that God's way is the only way!!! I am now engaged to be married next year to
a wonderful man of God who has made the same commitment as me. I pray that we
can be an example to people.
Entry of Jun
5, 1999 at 18:45 [EST]
From: FRED
BAKER - Preacherboy_Fred@hotmail.com
Age: 22
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I live in the heart of PA. The name of the town I live in is
New Berlin. This is good web site.
Entry of Jun
7, 1999 at 23:01 [EST]
From: John
Smith - JS@aol.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: Nashville.
Entry of Jun
9, 1999 at 04:33 [EST]
From: Maria
- maria501@hotmail.com
Age: 25
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: I live in the Philippines and I'm really glad to find out that
there are still individuals who consider that premarital sex should be avoided.
Entry of Jun
10, 1999 at 21:32 [EST]
From: Julius
G. Halawig -
juhal18@yahoo.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live at General Santos City Philippines I'm not aware of
the the pre-marital sex, cause isn't the right time to do that it is the sin!
we practice ourselves to get sex after marriage and not before marriage to be
a responsible and respect with each other fellowmen...........
Entry of Jun
11, 1999 at 13:10 [EST]
From: Craig
Wellington Williams
- jamroc@engin.umich.edu
Age: 22
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: I am an engineering student @ the University of Michigan in
Ann Arbor ;-)
Entry of Jun
11, 1999 at 22:29 [EST]
From: Sarah
Hamar - Sunkiss714
Age: 18
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I am a freshman at the University of Florida.
Entry of Jun
17, 1999 at 02:09 [EST]
From: gyasmeen
- gyasmeen1@yahoo.com
Age: 35
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: i live in MO but my religion stresses on sex after marriage
so there are rare cases of premarital sex in our community
Entry of Jun
17, 1999 at 15:27 [EST]
From: Starlene
Stewart - chastity@aztec.asu.edu
Age: 36
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Arizona. I have been abstinent for four years. I
have recently started a new e-mail list for adults committed to practicing chastity.
You can find subscription information to join by writing to me. I would
also be interested in corresponding with others who are committed to premarital
abstinence. Starlene
Entry of Jun
20, 1999 at 22:22 [EST]
From: Lynette
Deener - LDeener@hotmail.com
Age: 27
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments:
Entry of Jun
20, 1999 at 22:37 [EST]
From: Craig
Knapp - McLou303@usa.net
Age: 30
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Currently live in Denver Colorado. My wife and I made a commitment
to eachother and to God that we would wait until after we were married to have
sex. Yes, guys it is tough however it is possible I was 25 years old when we
got married and I was a virgin. There is nothing that can compare with the feeling
of how special sex is when it is saved for marriage. It adds something special
to a marriage.
Entry of Jun
23, 1999 at 16:18 [EST]
From: Rebecca
Seltzer - mseltzer@nmsu.edu
Age: 21
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I am a senior at New Mexico State University in Las Cruces,
NM. Sometimes it is hard to remember that there are people out there who really
are waiting, I really appreciate this site! :)
Entry of Jun
23, 1999 at 23:24 [EST]
From: Mike
- michalis@axess.com
Age: 28
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: Hi there....I'm from Canada....I'm 28 and have always believed
that sex before marriage is wrong. I get so frustrated at how society has brainwashed
the youth into accepting pre-marital sex as a "normal" and "hip"
thing....I mean, I can't even turn on the tv anymore to watch a sitcom without
almost every third joke being about the crotch or "doing it". And
even on radio and tv commercials, movies promote it as a "cool...hey everybody
does it" mentality...and portraying it in such a way that if you don't
believe in such a thing, you're different or wierd. What ever happened to goodness,
values, self-respect, wisdom??? Anyways, enough of my ranting. :) I happened
to stumble onto this website and though I'd give my own perspective on the matter.
It takes courage to stand up to what you believe in....I know I've had my share
of being poked fun of with my views.....but in my heart that good things always
come to those who wait......doesn't matter how much peer pressure is out there.....continue
to walk in the light, you can never be sorry for doing so.
Entry of Jun
24, 1999 at 12:43 [EST]
From: Regina
- rmd@swl.msd.ray.com

Age: 31
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live near Boston, MA. It is comforting to know that there
are a few others out there in the over-30 age bracket who are still trying to
remain pure. It's easy to feel lonely and discouraged, so we really need to
support each other! Feel free to drop me a line.
Entry of Jun
25, 1999 at 16:22 [EST]
From: Stephanie
English - engliss@alleg.edu
Age: 19
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in western Pennsylvania and I love finding abstinence
and anti-birth control sites!! :) Tell me if you have any good links for me
to try. I made my abstinence decision nearly three years ago and I have never
regretted it.
Entry of Jun
28, 1999 at 05:49 [EST]
From: Matthew
Spence - Yr93ms2@hors4th.demon.co.uk
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: In leeds where i live everyone rushes to have sex, but i have
chosemn the way of the lord and decided not have sex until i am married.
Entry of Jun
28, 1999 at 17:42 [EST]
From: waiting
for true love
- randyc@emj.ca
Age: 32
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: live in province of Alberta, Canada. I thank God for his gift
of Abstinence for me. I hope that God finds me a marriage partner who is also
abstinent. To everyone- God Bless and congrats on keeping your commitment to
God and your future spouse.
Entry of Jun
29, 1999 at 18:07 [EST]
From: Karina
- Disney_1978@ccnmail.com
Age: 21
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I have written many papers on the importance of abstinence.
It amazes me how many people I meet who respect my point of views about abstaining
until marriage. I used to get teased a lot about waiting until marriage but
since I have relied on the Lord I know that he will bless me in the end. I am
a virgin and am abstaining until I get married to have sex. I am waiting for
my MR.Right! What a wonderful day that will be when I will have my future husband
to share that special gift with!
Entry of Jul
1, 1999 at 01:58 [EST]
From: Jeffrey
Smith - jefweather
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Jul
2, 1999 at 00:55 [EST]
From: Shana
Smith - scsmj5@ewa.net

Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am from Washington state and I thought that I would never
find a man who shares my viewpoint on asbstinence before marriage, but since
viewing this website I realize that there are other people who are just like
me. I would enjoy hearing from anyone who wants to write.
Entry of Jul
3, 1999 at 19:08 [EST]
From: Ann
Caroline - anncaroline@iname.com
Age: 30
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I tried to do things my way...trying to be positive, but still
having sex before my marriage and after my divorce, in a live-in relationship.
It doesn't work. After recommitting my life to God, I've vowed not to have sex
until God blesses me to be married again!! It's been two years almost since
I've made the commitment. Sometimes I get discouraged, because it seems that
the majority of my friends, family, and single members of my church are doing
it. They say one thing inside church and practice something else outside of
church. But God always provides me with encouragement, such as this website.
God Bless, ANN
Entry of Jul
4, 1999 at 17:46 [EST]
From: Jessie
Malinosky - Jessiemal@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I just REALLY wish that my fiance would have waited until we
get married. I just feel that it is the best possible gift you could give your
partner as a wedding present. Your virginity is something that you can never
have back.
Entry of Jul
6, 1999 at 19:29 [EST]
From: maui
- maushi@yahoo.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Thanks you are really of great help. You're an answer to my
prayers.
Entry of Jul
12, 1999 at 02:18 [EST]
From: Melissa
- MRL180@aol.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments:
Entry of Jul
12, 1999 at 08:58 [EST]
From: Joshua
- tenman@excelonline.com
Age: 24
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: College student working on EE in Austin, TX.
Entry of Jul
19, 1999 at 23:09 [EST]
From: ernie
- rad@dzl.com
Age: 21
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: I stayed abstinent for 20 years, but recently i got a job traveling
throughout the city and my virginity was discovered by local teens. They abused
me and sexualy teased me until i was in tears, sad....... They made it look
like i was a sick pervert just because i chose not to have sexual relationships
with women for such a long time. I am getting over the abuse slowly and am gaining
respect from some slowly once again. For all those who may be going through
similar torment, stay confident and believe in your self...(saD sTorY froM El
PasO TX.)
Entry of Jul
20, 1999 at 06:44 [EST]
From: buffy
walters - 98swalters
Age: 16
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: I live at Oxford
Entry of Jul
21, 1999 at 08:43 [EST]
From: Darlena
Outing - dreamgoddess099@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: A publication
Comments: Hi, I live in Charlotte,NC
Entry of Jul
21, 1999 at 16:36 [EST]
From: Allie
- alranson@hotmail.com
Age: 26
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I live in London, England. I don't think for one minute have
I ever regretted my decision. Whenever a relationship I am in comes to an end
(and by the way, the ending is never as a result of this decision) I just thank
God I didn't sleep with them. I would have been giving too much of myself away.
The only thing that troubles me is that I haven't got the strength or energy
to defend my decision to the world, so I tend to keep very quiet on the subject.
Such a commitment is such a novelty in today's society, that I dont want to
be continually described to others only as That Girl Who Is 26 and Has Never
Slept With Anyone???!!!!
Entry of Jul
23, 1999 at 00:45 [EST]
From: Sarah
- harmoni83@aol.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am a 15 yr old girl going into my junior year of high school.
A lot of peers talk about sex etc. and i choose to stay abstinent. however,
i have found out a lot of people talk about it like they have sex all the time
but most of them are still virgins. so i promise you are not alone. And it isnt
hard to be abstinent. when you have a relationship with someone, get to know
them and tell them how you feel about sex before marriage. most likely they
will respect your desicion. Please do this for yourself. good luck everyone!
sarah oxford, ct
Entry of Jul
29, 1999 at 17:41 [EST]
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