
Archive 4
Here is what some previous guests have written about their commitment to abstinence:
Entry of Oct
16, 1999 at 13:19 [EST]
From: Anil
Hinduja - ahinduja@mvnc.edu
Age: 21
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments:
Entry of Oct
17, 1999 at 10:07 [EST]
From: Ashley
- ashley_woo@yahoo.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Hi!I'm from Malaysia.I'm a college student.Actually I was told
to do a public speaking in the classroom.And I'm very interested in pre-marital
sex and abstinence.I have just committed to abstinence,personally.I wish that
I can persuade my classmates commit to abstinence too.
Entry of Oct
19, 1999 at 16:24 [EST]
From: dawn
wilfong - dawn.wilfong@wcom.com
Age: 24
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: i live in hillsboro missouri
Entry of Oct
19, 1999 at 21:12 [EST]
From: John
Dugger - Pleabion@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Other
Comments: Joplin, Missouri
Entry of Oct
20, 1999 at 20:35 [EST]
From: Victoria
- none
Age: 26
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I came across this page while doing a report how television
(with its new target "young hollywood") has helped to promote pre-marital
sex especially in pre-teens and teens while the government has issued 50 million
dollars to premote abstinence only classes. If you were a teen who would you
be more prone to listen to your out of touch math teacher- or DAWSON from DAWSONS
CREEK? When I was little I used to pray that my future husband would save himself
for me as I had commited to save myself for him. When I think of prospects I
still hold that prayer close to my heart- now I know that I still have hope
of finding him out there. Thank you for letting me know that you are out there
Entry of Oct
20, 1999 at 22:20 [EST]
From: Arika
Lerud - ajlerud@juno.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: it's so encouraging to find a website dedicated to abstinence
and God's view about sex. thank you!!
Entry of Oct
21, 1999 at 19:44 [EST]
From: Mary
Kate - Glitzz105@aol.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I live in New Jersey, and I am a senior in high school.
Entry of Oct
22, 1999 at 11:26 [EST]
From: Erin
Lengerich - erirleng@hotmail.com
Age: 21
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I am a student at Northern Kentucky University and I decided
to use sexual abstinence as my topic for a persuasive speech I must give in
order to educate more people about the benefits of abstinence.
Entry of Oct
22, 1999 at 11:49 [EST]
From: Lisa
- lisanorton@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Anaheim, California.
Entry of Oct
22, 1999 at 13:06 [EST]
From: Stacy
Sturgeon - stacy_sturgeon
Age: 18
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: I am from Indiana, but currently going to Northern Kentucky
University.
Entry of Oct
22, 1999 at 16:37 [EST]
From: Marcia
Buford - m_buford@hotmailcom
Age: 44
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments:
Entry of Oct
22, 1999 at 19:03 [EST]
From: Matt
- mthimgan@yahoo.com

Age: 35
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in the Seattle Puget Sound area of Washington. It was
very encouraging to find this web site and to realize there really are lots
of others who have chosen sexual abstinence. I was very shy gowing up and in
High School which kept me a virgin. It was later that I learned the benefits
of being sexually abstinent. I stayed abstinent until I was married in 1990.
I was married for 6 years until my unfortunate divorce. It wasn't always easy
to stay abstinent but my belief in how right and safer it was helped. Even though
I'm divorced now I've pledged I will wait on sex until I'm married again.
Entry of Oct
23, 1999 at 00:02 [EST]
From: Christian
- tsll@hotmail.com
Age: 14
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: I'm from miami FL and I just have to say your site showed me
how wonderful it is to marry a virgin and know you are the one person who gets
to experience sex with that person. I'm showing the material from your site
to my friends!
Entry of Oct
25, 1999 at 20:49 [EST]
From: CMM
- Bif987@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Virginia, and I am a virgin. I promised to remain
abstinent until marriage many years ago and I have stood true to that promise.
It is so great to think that someday when I marry the one and only love of my
life, I will be able to give to him wholly and purely.
Entry of Oct
27, 1999 at 11:56 [EST]
From: Maeyonna
Riggs - riggs@uscolo.edu
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: My love for Jesus has kept me on the right track!
Entry of Oct
27, 1999 at 13:32 [EST]
From: Alicia
Bennett - sweets_alicia@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Newport, Arkansas. A lot of teens here are very misinformed.
We need more websites like this available. I believe they would change their
minds about a lot of things that they believe in now. I've never been sexually
active, just because people said not to. Now I know the real reasons people
should wait. Thanks!
Entry of Oct
28, 1999 at 02:15 [EST]
From: Laura
- pinkangel11@hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: I am currently a freshman at the University of Kentucky.
Entry of Oct
28, 1999 at 17:56 [EST]
From: Michaela
- GrnMchine3@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Springfield, IL
Entry of Oct
28, 1999 at 21:55 [EST]
From: Cyndi
- Cinderella_86@hotmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am from Ohio, and have made a strong commitment to not have
premaritial sex. I is hard in a world today where every where we look the world
is urging us to have sex. It is great to know there are others that feel the
same way! Thanks - Cyndi
Entry of Oct
28, 1999 at 22:22 [EST]
From: Tony
- mahalo10@aol.com
Age: 28
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am from Michigan and recently have been doubting my decision
of abstinence until marriage. I just turned 28 and have yet to meet Mrs. right.
I don't want to be a 30 year old virgin. The older I get the more difficult
it gets. However, I have realized that having sex isn't going to get me any
closer to marriage. God will send me the right person when he thinks I'm ready.
I am very encouraged by all of those people in the guest book and I will no
longer feel a lone (or like a freak!) And I will no longer doubt my decision.
Entry of Oct
30, 1999 at 23:38 [EST]
From: Darryl
Cooke - dcooke@ccinet.ab.ca
Age:
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments:
Entry of Oct
31, 1999 at 01:05 [EST]
From: Melissa
Griffin - 4grifmul@compaq.net
Age: 17
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: I live in Independene, Louisiana. I made a commitment to God
to stay sexually pure until marriage when I was 13 yrs old. I am now apart of
a program that our governor put together that will help to promote sexual abstinence
in the schools of our state.
Entry of Oct
31, 1999 at 15:24 [EST]
From: Mandy
McCullough -
mandy17chs@gateway.net
Age: 16
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Columbus, Georgia :)
Entry of Oct
31, 1999 at 15:47 [EST]
From: Katie
McNamra - KatieMac39@aol.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: I am from Rochester, NY and I am really determined to wait
until I get married. I do not want sex to ruin my life and so I will put it
off until it is suitable. I think waiting until I get married is a moral way
to lead my life, and it will make my future husband happy, though he might just
as possibly have been a dirty player. Anyways I'm gonna try to wait.
Entry of Nov
2, 1999 at 12:47 [EST]
From: Heather
Chambers - kksheater@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I'm from Arkansas....freshman at the University of Arkansas@
Hope... And yep, I decided a looooong time ago that I am going to wait until
I'm married before I have sex. It is such a peaceful thing to know in my heart
that I'm doing what God wants me to do, and that he's going to send me "THE
ONE". Yall just have to know that his way IS the way, and he's gonna take
care of you always!!
Entry of Nov
2, 1999 at 14:42 [EST]
From: lucy
gonzalez - fatima69@juno.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: el paso tx
Entry of Nov
2, 1999 at 16:25 [EST]
From: Chelsey
Schell - relthing19@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I think that it is great to have a page for this!! I have always
felt like a weirdo for not having sex- but I know now that I am just another
number!! Michigan
Entry of Nov
2, 1999 at 20:15 [EST]
From: Draenna
Jackson - d_jackson962@animalhouse.com

Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Illinois, and if anyone out there who is my age needs
a friend to discuss this with (because I know it can be difficult) email me.
Entry of Nov
3, 1999 at 09:15 [EST]
From: Yamila
Lavernia - yjla21@hotmail.com
Age: 21
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Nov
3, 1999 at 22:18 [EST]
From: Laura
Cobb - happy-chappy@moose-mail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: Hey everyone. I am from Nebraska. When I was 13, I made the
commitment to save myself completely for my future husband. I had a bad relationship
last year, and we didn't go all the way, but we went to far. Since then, I have
made the commitment to never again kiss until my wedding day. I am going to
find a man who respects me and my standards, and when that blessed day of marraige
comes, I am going to have an awesome time knowing that I saved myself for him
and didn't waste myself on anyone else. Laura
Entry of Nov
4, 1999 at 18:12 [EST]
From: kel
- khardy@vt.edu
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I'm a va tech student and i found this site to be absolutely
wonderful. I'm am righting an essay on premarital sex. This website was a big
help
Entry of Nov
4, 1999 at 21:29 [EST]
From: Robyn
Schlegel - Robyn_Nichole99@yahoo.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in PA, and I have chosen to abstain from sex until marriage.
For the simple reason, that there are too many STD's and too much worry to deal
with. I believe you shouldn't experience the act of love until your in love.
(and personally I don't think anyone my age is mature enough).
Entry of Nov
4, 1999 at 21:39 [EST]
From: Mandi
Sullivan - magnoliagirl@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Kilgore, TX. I found this website researching "abstinence"
for a persuasive speech at my High School. I think you have done a good job
with this site. People need to hear these stories. Keep it up!
Entry of Nov
5, 1999 at 11:43 [EST]
From: Jenny
Kildow - Jbean2345@aol.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Suwanee, Ga. I made this commitment when I turned
13 and would like to continue to keep it.
Entry of Nov
5, 1999 at 11:43 [EST]
From: Amber
McNeely - Jbean2345@aol.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in Suwanee, Ga. My boyfriend, David and I have made
the best and most benificial choice of our life. I would appreciate your prayers
for our strength and purity.
Entry of Nov
5, 1999 at 11:45 [EST]
From: Lauren
Noblitt - lnoblitt33@hotmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Cumming, Ga...I made the commitment though youth
group, and a program called True Love waits...it was great! You put a ring on
your wedding finger, until the night of oyur marriage when you lose it! I really
helps me every time i look at my hand! try it!
Entry of Nov
5, 1999 at 12:20 [EST]
From: Susie
Weber - supasusie@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: Very nice. Helped out a lot with my persuasive speech. Thanks!
Entry of Nov
5, 1999 at 12:52 [EST]
From: Kelley
Smith - kellysuesmith@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: I live in a small town in Nebraska and I am waiting until marriage
to have sex. It is not easy to stand up for what you believe in, but with God
I believe anything is possible. This website showed me that I am not alone and
that there are still good guys out there.
Entry of Nov
5, 1999 at 12:56 [EST]
From: Mookie
Staple - themooks.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in Chicago
Entry of Nov
5, 1999 at 13:00 [EST]
From: Susie
Weber - supasusie@hotmail.com

Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in a small town in Nebraska, and despite the size, the
are still many students having sex. The pressure could've been hard for me,
but I was raised Catholic (not all Catholic girls are promiscuous)and my Catholic
concious has kept me out of a lot of trouble. I am a firm believer in abstinence
until marriage, and I am so glad there is a site like this to spread the importance
of this. Please feel free to write to me! I would love to hear about other people's
motives for saving themselves until marriage.
Entry of Nov
5, 1999 at 17:51 [EST]
From: Nadine
Childress - qnadi@yahoo.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I hate making mistakes, and I want to be 100% sure that it
won't be a mistake before I have sex.
Entry of Nov
6, 1999 at 11:06 [EST]
From: Melane
- melaned@hotmail.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I live in Louisiana. I am a southern Baptist and love the Lord.
My church and school have both had True Love Waits Rallys. Several years ago,
at my church, I made the commitment to God, my future husband, and myself to
wait until marriage. I have had no struggle in this commitment either. I have
found that if you place your trust in Christ and date someone who also has your
views, then it souldn't be a problem. Try not to get yourself in compromising
situations like too much cuddling! Even if you do make the mistake, ask for
forgiveness, and don't do it again! Just remember, God loves you no matter what!
--Melane
Entry of Nov
7, 1999 at 15:58 [EST]
From: Sharon
Boyd - sharonmboyd@yahoo.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I am from Mesquite, Texas and I am currently a Communication
Studies major at the University of North Texas. Right now I am preparing a persuasive
speech on why to remain sexually abstinent until marriage. Thank you so much
for this site; I think it is great.
Entry of Nov
8, 1999 at 10:21 [EST]
From: Elizabeth
Gunther - emgunth@ilstu.edu
Age: 18
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments:
Entry of Nov
8, 1999 at 11:28 [EST]
From: Amanda
Hofbauer - lilprincess6@yahoo.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Canton, IL I have experienced the same type of feelings the
man wrote about in his letter to everyone. He is right in the aspect of building
more on a relationship to find out who each other are and to get into a deeper
understanding of each other.
Entry of Nov
8, 1999 at 13:43 [EST]
From: sierra
- dct@freak
aol.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Nov
8, 1999 at 18:44 [EST]
From: Shellie
Bamfield - limabean00@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I'm from Ohio. I decided a while ago that I wanted to wait
till I was married to have sex. Now, my friends talk about what a bad decision
it was when they lost their virginity, and how much they wish they'd never had
sex, and a few of them (girls and guys!!) have decided to wait from now on,
and I'm so proud of them. It makes me glad that I never had sex and had to deal
with some of the stuff they've been through because they have, and I can tell
they don't have as much respect for themselves.
Entry of Nov
8, 1999 at 20:20 [EST]
From: Amanda
Weems - alw018@beta.latech.edu
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I am a student at Louisiana Tech University in Ruston, Louisiana.
Entry of Nov
8, 1999 at 22:54 [EST]
From: Laura
Criswell - lecriswe@wolverine.cameron.edu
Age: 19
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Comanche, OK. I am a freshman at Cameron University. I had
promised myself that I would wait until I was married to have sex. God has been
very merciful to me and I have been able to keep that promise to date. I would
strongly encourage anyone that thinks they can stop after a passionate kiss
to rethink their position. Abstinence is more than waiting to engage in sexual
intercourse. It is about remaining pure, and it is next to impossible to reamin
pure if you place yourself in a position where emotions and feelings are soaring
at an all-time high. It may not seem so bad at the time, but after the passion
stops, the full reality of what you have allowed yourself to partake of hits
you hard. Trust me. I have decided that sexual abstinence is not enough for
me. I have decided to wait until I am at least engaged, if not married before
I kiss anyone again. No matter how many years that takes, because I know that
somewhere in this vast world, God has the one person that is perfect for me.
When he finds me, I will have to ask his forgiveness for walking a dangerous
line, but I am thankful that God protected me from losing my virginity (or having
it taken away from me) that night. I will never again allow myself to be put
in a place that tempts me or the person I am with beyond what we can handle.
Entry of Nov
9, 1999 at 09:56 [EST]
From: Angela
- abriley@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: All throughout high school I went around Tennessee and taught
abstinence education. It was so encouraging to see young people change their
views regarding sex before marriage. Now that I am in college, I am presenting
this topic as my speech for a class. I am so excited to hopefully open minds
about the choices that God has given us! I have been called into the ministry
and feel that God is pulling me to work with teenage girls who experience the
bad effects of sex before marriage. It is incredible to see internet sites that
promote abstinence and proclaim God's truth!!!
Entry of Nov
10, 1999 at 12:34 [EST]
From: Kristen
Manno - scoober
@prodigy.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments:
Entry of Nov
10, 1999 at 17:22 [EST]
From: Kristin
- Monaco9245@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I am 19/f, living in the southern Ohio region. Let me just
first say that this is a wonderful site! It's the best one I have seen, not
to mention that it doesn't make abstinence seem like a) a joke, or b) something
that only pastor's children are involved in. I need this. I am, indeed, a virgin,
as is my boyfriend of nearly a year. I met him 2 years ago, and he was an amazing
human being, but I fell even more in love with him as I discovered that he was
a virgin as well. I couldn't have stayed pure without him. Abstinence is a diffuclt
thing to come by, espically with the media's nonchalance towards committment.
And you have to do it for yourself. For anyone else, will (most of the time)
result in breaking that promise to yourself. I actually see a potential positive
turning point for the nation down the road. If one word were to describe the
nation-in every aspect, it would be "outraegous." Everything from
clothing to politics to moral ruthlessness is outraegous. I think that at a
certain point, people aren't going to want to see that anymore. It will get
old. Things cannot be new forever. And simplicity will set in. Things will be
simpler. I mean, obviously, things will never get cut-and-dry-simple, but everyday
complexities will be lessened. I hope and pray that it will reflect on sexuality.
If a bunch of us wouldn't so meekly sit back and disagree with the 90's version
of the sexual revolution, something could be done. Young people are very impressionable.
I know, I am one. Planned Parenthood is getting in there and corrupting ideaologies
for youth, that now know they can get contraceptives, abortions, and medical
checkups without anyone being notified. We need to take a stand. We can change
this.
Entry of Nov
11, 1999 at 11:23 [EST]
From: Melissa
Jo Barnes - wiebe@nortexinfo.net
Age: 19
How I found your page: Other
Comments: This is a great site. It is very inspriring. Melissa from Gainesville,
Texas.
Entry of Nov
11, 1999 at 22:45 [EST]
From: Falon
Turner - tfalon@hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: Hello, I am from CT, I have decided to wait till marriage because
of the disadvantages that come along with the responsability of sex... it is
so not worth it! I am worth the wait, and if my partner, doesn't realize this,
he was so not worth me!
Entry of Nov
12, 1999 at 11:57 [EST]
From: Rachelle
- freaky2y2k@yahoo.com
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Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I just need to say that I am for abstinence all the way!!!!!!
If you have any questions or any comments, feel free to email me. I can also
tell you that I am a little bit confused in that whole text of absitnence because
I think about sex often and I don't think that I should be ashamed of that.
Right...? Thank you!!!!!!!! 8) Please, I insist. Email me if there is anything.
Entry of Nov
12, 1999 at 12:47 [EST]
From: Cheri
Johnson - cherirjj@aol.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Oxford, MI and go to Oxford High School. My boyfriend
and I have not only decided on abstinence, we have also decided not to kiss
until we say I DO. This is our conviction and we have learned so much from this
decision because there are many people expecting us to either fail or succeed.
It is an awesome witness.
Entry of Nov
13, 1999 at 22:00 [EST]
From: Amity
Fogle - beachroxy@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I made the commitment to stay abstinant until marriage 5 years
ago. Just 2 months ago I got married to a awesome man of God that also waited
to have sex until marriage. I just want to say that waiting until I was married
was the best desicion. It was hard but the Lord helped me keep that commitment.
I encourage everyone to wait until marriage. Remember that the Lord will never
put anything before you that you can not handle.
Entry of Nov
14, 1999 at 23:44 [EST]
From: Amanda
Lawson - alawson@calbaptist.edu
Age:
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: This is great! I am doing a speech for a college class(California
Baptist University), and this info is very helpful! I am commited to sexual
abstinence until marriage!
Entry of Nov
15, 1999 at 13:03 [EST]
From: Rachelle
Louis - freaky2y2k@yahoo.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Nov
15, 1999 at 23:29 [EST]
From: terezs
- terezs@yahoo.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: hi, I have a website for those abstaining from sex before marriage
and it is also a support group. http://www.onelist.com/subscribe/01Abstinence
You are welcome to join us!
Entry of Nov
16, 1999 at 01:11 [EST]
From: Scott
Owen Redford
- scottie_rickie@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Rome, Ohio. I'm a college student looking for research
on pre-marital sex. I think you sight is the best one that I've ever seen on
this topic. Not only are you stating the problem, but you give us a solution
on how to fix our problem. Thank you Scott Redford
Entry of Nov
16, 1999 at 11:59 [EST]
From: Jillian
Herberger - jherberger@hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: Ever since I can remember I have decided to remain pure until
my wedding day, and even though I have been through many relationships, I still
hold strong in my faith in Christ. I pray every night for my future mate and
I, and that we remain strong and true to each other until God allows us to meet.
I encourage everyone out there to continue and wait for a love far more greater
than we can ever imagine. God bless you all in your journey for your future
mate in purity.
Entry of Nov
16, 1999 at 13:18 [EST]
From: Stephanie
L. Keys - Skeys72@hotmail.com
Age: 30
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments:
Entry of Nov
16, 1999 at 21:17 [EST]
From: Logan
Ark - N/A
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Well, this page is great! I've been planning for some time
to create one of my own. Abstinence is the only way. If you are a virgin you
have something special, don't throw it away. Sex is meant only for the realm
of marriage. I thought that I loved this girl and know things are all messed
up. If there was one thing I could change it would be that. Now that I am a
secondary virgin, I feel right with God. And what a wonderful feeling that is.
Praise the Lord in all his glory.
Entry of Nov
17, 1999 at 06:05 [EST]
From: Rachael
Kahne - earthangel_413@yahoo.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in ramstein, germany right now
Entry of Nov
17, 1999 at 13:01 [EST]
From: Chaos
Johnson - chaos10109@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I'm a virgin, and I intend to stay that way until I get married.
There are too many diseases out there to be "bunking up" with everybody,
and besides, the BIBLE speaks against it. I'm precious, my body is a jewel,
my health is essential, I'm worth the wait. Chaos
Entry of Nov
17, 1999 at 23:23 [EST]
From: David
Johnson - lil_d_byx@hotmail.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: It is hard when you go o Southwest Texas State, a school notorious
for its parties. I am from Pflugerville in Travis Couny in Texas. Travis County
has the highest Teen Pregnancy rate in the state. But I am succeeding with this
everyday.
Entry of Nov
18, 1999 at 19:45 [EST]
From: Joni
Fringer - smbones@yahoo.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I go to school at Lambuth University. I made a TRL pledge five
years ago and plan to be married in a month.
Entry of Nov
18, 1999 at 19:59 [EST]
From: Elaine
Weaver - yakadoo33@excite.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Nov
19, 1999 at 00:38 [EST]
From: Joshua
Johnson - joshua-johnson@utulsa.edu
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I attend the University of Tulsa in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I would
like to email ellen, as I have a question to ask her. Unfortunately, I cannot
click on the link to email her because of my computers commitment to stubborness.
:) If someone would be so kind as to email me with her email address, I would
be very grateful. Thank you, and God bless.
Entry of Nov
19, 1999 at 09:39 [EST]
From: Rob
Shawver - snookkiller@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I go to scool at Gardner-Webb University, please e-mail me
the name of the orginization that this website is affilated with. thank you.
Entry of Nov
20, 1999 at 23:38 [EST]
From: Matt
Fidler (Chuckles)
- Chuckl2524@aol.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Other
Comments: Hi Mike and Jen and Gina and Lisa and Clair. How are you guys?
OK well IM a part of Friends First. Im part of STARS. I live in Longmont Colorado.
Entry of Nov
21, 1999 at 21:53 [EST]
From: Heidi
Hester - hheidiann@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I commend anyone who is willing to stand up for abstinance
and I know it's for me cause I want to save all of myself for my future husband!
Entry of Nov
22, 1999 at 13:54 [EST]
From: Beth
Bontrager - bon8@iinc.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in New York and decided long ago that abstinence until
marraige was the way for me and no matter what, I am going to live up to that
standard that I set for myself. I have too much self worth to sell myself or
my future husband short.
Entry of Nov
22, 1999 at 19:29 [EST]
From: Tonette
L. Brown - mstoni_1@yahoo.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Atlanta but I am originally from Detroit. I attend
school down here and this is my 3rd year at Clark Atlanta Univ.
Entry of Nov
23, 1999 at 00:34 [EST]
From: Jennifer
R. Faber - j.faber@excite.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I'm from Monticello, Minnesota, but I am currently a sophomore
at the University of Wisconsin-Stout. I was doing research for my persuasive
speech for my Fundamentals of Speech class--my topic is abstinence.
Entry of Nov
23, 1999 at 16:29 [EST]
From: Jaisek
Smith - guitar_gal@hotmail.com
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Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Hello...I'm a high school senior from Warren, MI. I'm actually
doing a research paper to persuade people to stay abstinant until marriage.
It's refreshing to know so many people share my beliefs! Even before I began
my walk with God, I felt sex outside of marriage was wrong...I've seen it too
often in the lives of my cousins...I'm glad this page exists and offers support.
If anyone would like an e-mail correspondence, feel free to e-mail me!
Entry of Nov
23, 1999 at 17:59 [EST]
From: Melanie
Kliegl - klieglm4620@uni.edu
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: This is the most touching web site I have ever been to. I have
been in a 2 year relationship with someone who has also decided to remain abstinent
but I will say that it has not been easy. I continue to ask God for strength
and courage that He will be the center of our relationship and will help us
to grow in Him. Thank you for this incredible website. You have given me hope
and inspiration for my future in sexual abstinence. Melanie Kliegl -Spirit Lake,
Iowa
Entry of Nov
24, 1999 at 00:15 [EST]
From: Matt
- Fiend65@aol.com
Age: n/a
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: "But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry,
for it is better to marry than to burn with passion." [I Corinthians 7:9]
If two people who are married to two other people are burning with passion for
each other, yet they don't want to committ adultery what should they do According
to god it is wrong to get divorced. Yet the passage says they should marry.
What should they do?
Entry of Nov
25, 1999 at 10:17 [EST]
From: MIchelle
- MissDrugstore3@chickmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: like your site! need it for a school project. i've had sex
at 17 with a 26 year old male. he bugs me now.
Entry of Nov
27, 1999 at 11:33 [EST]
From: Jamie
Fox - PenguinCHS@aol.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: I am doing a report on this subject for English class and I
have always felt very strongly about the fact that sex can wait. I just think
that premarital sex is the wrong thing and waiting until you find the right
person and you are married is the right thing to do. Just my opinion, but I
feel very strongly about it. Thanks for making it easy to find out the dangers!
Entry of Nov
27, 1999 at 13:17 [EST]
From: candace
moore - cmgossip@yahoo.com.
Age: 18
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: I'm doing a speech on premarital sex in my comm 120 class at
csusb.\
Entry of Nov
27, 1999 at 15:37 [EST]
From: Neil
Perdue - nnhunter@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Nov
28, 1999 at 18:30 [EST]
From: Michele
- waka_waka_doo@yahoo.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Nov
28, 1999 at 22:35 [EST]
From: Gregory
Lawrence Kolles
- ArdyCat@aol.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Monticello, Mn I am a junior in High School and in
my school not having sex is the how do i want to say it "not cool thing
to do," but i love the lord and im going to stay pure till im married!
Entry of Nov
29, 1999 at 14:59 [EST]
From: Halie
- SadidaScr1
Age: 18
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I wish to remain faithful to God; by following his word and
staying strong in my morals and beliefs I have become closer to him. It's worth
the wait! - Lakeland, FL
Entry of Nov
29, 1999 at 20:10 [EST]
From: Crissie
Williams - clwilli3@ilstu.edu
Age: 18
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: Chicago, but I'm a student at Illinois State University in
Normaal, Illinois
Entry of Nov
29, 1999 at 20:32 [EST]
From: Naomi
Killingsworth
- missamerica53@yahoo.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Other
Comments: i am from northeast texas
Entry of Nov
29, 1999 at 21:52 [EST]
From: Nicole
- Nikkicole25@Hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments:
Entry of Nov
29, 1999 at 23:33 [EST]
From: Tami
- trhinds@mail.saumag.edu
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Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Magnolia, Arkansas. Some of my friends have already
had sex, but I chose not too. They might think I'm nuts, but it's my decision
to wait and I'm not letting anyone tell me what to do. I would like to hear
from anyone who would like to talk.
Entry of Nov
30, 1999 at 03:01 [EST]
From: Bert
Clayton - jiubee@aol.com
Age: 33
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in South Carolina and would like to meet others who
value sexual purity. I feel like sex is a sacred act between two people who
are committed to one another.
Entry of Nov
30, 1999 at 23:05 [EST]
From: Mandy
- ASD423
Age: 18
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: Chattanooga, TN
Entry of Dec
1, 1999 at 10:59 [EST]
From: Anna
& Leslie - Confidential
Age: 17
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: We will abstain!
Entry of Dec
1, 1999 at 18:25 [EST]
From: Mat
Jaquay - jaquaym@bethel-in.edu
Age: 21
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I am a college student at a small christian school located
in Mishawaka In, 15 minutes from Notre Dame. I have had a commitment to abstinence
since my freshman year of high school. I was researching online to try and find
some information about sexual purity when i can across this web site. It is
very good and i like the truths that are protrayed here. I pray that God will
bless everyone that makes this very important commitment.
Entry of Dec
2, 1999 at 14:08 [EST]
From: Liza
- fine_as_wine3@yahoo.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments:
Entry of Dec
2, 1999 at 20:57 [EST]
From: jasmine
- jasmine_86@excite.com
Age: 13
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: I'm a 13 y/o female from cincinnati, ohio. when i was like
9 years old, at this older church i went to, they were talking about saving
yourself for marriage. i was too young to understand back then, but i said "SURE!"
my mom didn't really pay much attention to it, being that i was so young. but
now i'm 13, and 3 weeks after my birthday, i took a vowel in front of the women
of my family and my dad, to keep myself pure till marriage. my aunt bought like
this jewish handkerchief thingy (even though we're christian and bptist), and
said it was for my wedding night. when the wedding date is set, it would be
sown on the handkerchief in red, and i would have to smear my blood on it to
verify i was one. it wasn't a hard choice for me to make this decision, because
my "big daddy" said so. temptations may come, but i have my ring to
look at, and God to look at to remind me of "my promise." -jasmine
Entry of Dec
2, 1999 at 22:02 [EST]
From: amada
- caimie@hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: california ( the valley )
Entry of Dec
4, 1999 at 16:31 [EST]
From: Paula
- Liria2000@aol.com
Age: 21
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: I live in NJ and I plan on staying pure till I'm legally wed
to my one true love.
Entry of Dec
4, 1999 at 17:23 [EST]
From: Melanie
- MeLeeAn01@aol.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Dec
5, 1999 at 18:15 [EST]
From: Lindsay
Exworthy - LSweety15@excite.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Stillwater, MN (thats about 15 minutes from St.Paul)
Imade the commitment to abstain from sex until marriage several years ago but
I never decided how far was too far. I found this site while doing researchon
abstinence for school bcuase abstinence is something I care about and I want
everyone to know that abstinence is GREAT and has too many more benefits than
sex to not consider it. Your site made me realize that some of the choices i
was making in the relationship I'm in right now were very opposite of my commitment
. I was not doing anything besides portraying myself as less than I am and I
have recommitted not just my actions but my thoughts and my lifestyle to abstinence.
Thanx Bunches, Lindsay
Entry of Dec
5, 1999 at 23:35 [EST]
From: Kaitlin
Allen - K8eklare
Age: 14
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: I've done true love waits! i strongly suggest it. it's a great
way to keep close to God. Great job with the commitment! luv in Christ
Entry of Dec
6, 1999 at 15:35 [EST]
From: Leah
Fuller - Leah0583
Age: 19
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in Florida and I am currently enrolled in Junior College.
I dated the same guy for 2 1/2 years and we thought we were going to get married.
We both decided to save ourselves for marriage and about 4months ago we broke
up. At times it was hard to stay pure because I really was in love with him
but I'm glad I remained a virgin because he cheated on me and obviously didn't
love me the way I loved him. Now I still have that precious gift that God gave
me to share with my future husband some day.
Entry of Dec
6, 1999 at 16:14 [EST]
From: katie
millar - katie_millar@hotmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I was proud to see a christian site about this subject, good
for you.
Entry of Dec
6, 1999 at 16:18 [EST]
From: sunshine
- sunshine_hayden@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in Philadelphia,PA. And where may I ask are you from
?
Entry of Dec
8, 1999 at 00:08 [EST]
From: Night
Jazz - night_jazz@hotmail.com
Age: 32
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: As a 31 year old bachelor, I think that this site is an excellent
one! This is a very useful site.
Entry of Dec
8, 1999 at 00:50 [EST]
From: Jeffrey
D. Metcalf -
SkipperJackson@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I am a college student from Woodstock, Illinois. I admit to
having sex with several people since I turned fifteen but ever since I met the
girl I'm dating now, I haven't even had the desire to have sexual intercourse.
I feel this is because our relationship is so strong emotionally and verbally
that it doesn't need to be physically. I'm saving for marriage now. And I'm
proud to admit that!
Entry of Dec
8, 1999 at 01:43 [EST]
From: RAD
- roaders1@yahoo.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments:
Entry of Dec
8, 1999 at 01:47 [EST]
From: Ricky
Dalton - roaders1@yahoo.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Hi i'm a male from PEI Canada and i had never even considered
abstenince before me and my girl friend started talking about sex one day and
then we both decided that abstenece was the way to go.
Entry of Dec
8, 1999 at 15:01 [EST]
From: Courtney
- courtneytess@hotmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Other
Comments:
Entry of Dec
9, 1999 at 18:59 [EST]
From: Kristin
- KPBaber
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Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: i am a secondary virgin. Premarital sex is so the wrong way
to go, and i hope that this website convinces people of that. I made a mistake
and will live with that for the rest of my life, Please take my advice and wait.
Read your BIBLE everyday--GOD is awesome. You will find the answer through him.
If you would like some advice, feel free to e-mail me
Entry of Dec
12, 1999 at 03:36 [EST]
From: jenevive
Chua - jenebivit@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I strongly agree that sex is good if you will do it after marriage.
Keep up the good work! This is the best website!
Entry of Dec
12, 1999 at 19:37 [EST]
From: Jessie
Lee - haylee_15@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Indiana and have chosen to wait until marriage for
sex. I think this webpage is a great idea ! thanks so much!
Entry of Dec
14, 1999 at 13:52 [EST]
From: Jamila
Griffith - jamila333@yahoo.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I believe that this site is great. It is so wonderful to know
that there are others out there who have the same beliefs and opinions on abstinence.
Sometimes its hard to hold on to my virginity but I know that I can do all things
through my Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ who gives me strength. I believe that
by being sexually pure now, on my wedding day when the Lord sends that special
man my way, I will have a gift, a special gift that only I can give away to
give him. For all of those out there who also believe in abstinence until marriage
hold on, and stay strong in the Lord.
Entry of Dec
17, 1999 at 16:35 [EST]
From: Marla
Shelton - mls_bonjour@hotmail.com
Age: 22
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: Hendersonville, TN I'm a student at APSU in Clarksville,TN
Entry of Dec
18, 1999 at 21:10 [EST]
From: Petula
Lloyd - prl1@bellsouth
Age: 31
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Atlanta with my daughter. I've never been married
(of course, we all make mistakes), but I rededicated my life to Christ about
three years ago and have been a born-again virgin since then. It's the hardest
thing. I could have been married, but those men were not who God has for me.
So it's especially hard to wait to do the right thing. It's even harder when
I know what I'm missing. I commend those who have never given in and pray they
remain pure. As for those who are still virgins: What made you never do it?
Although I know the word, I want to impart something to my daughter that will
not only instill the word of God in her, but give her practical and tangible
steps to respecting her body and keeping it as a holy sacrifise. God bless you
all and thank you for this wonderful site. It's given me comfort. By the way,
I'm writing an article for my church newsletter about abstinence.
Entry of Dec
20, 1999 at 21:57 [EST]
From: Molly
- spaci_23@hotmail.com
Age: 13
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: I live in Wyoming. It is soooo hard to stay abstinent around
here, but I will!
Entry of Dec
26, 1999 at 23:24 [EST]
From: Mikey
Scars - m_scars@hotmail.com
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Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Live in DC/Maryland. A full-time musician in a rock band. I
ain't puttin' out to NO ONE till MARRIAGE! I've known it's the only way since
as far back as I can remember. I'm so glad I found this site. I'd like to hear
from anyone sharing my feelings. Thank you to the people and to God who organized
this site.
Entry of Dec
31, 1999 at 15:24 [EST]
From: Kristal
Hilton - DwBhAmIc@aol.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I am from New Boston, TX, and I was searching for some information
about premarital sex and the consequences of it. I am going to be in the Teen
Arkansas pageant and my platform is True Love Waits. I was also hoping this
would give me some ideas for when I go speak at different schools. I really
love this site because it gives lots of personal experiences and things that
have actually happened to people my age.
Entry of Jan
1, 2000 at 16:11 [EST]
From: Irene
W. - irenew@pangea.ca
Age: 26
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I have always known that waiting till marriage is right. and
I have. It has been hard though. I have had one boyfriend and dated someone
else. Both I have always been upfront and said I was waiting. They respect that.
Don't be afraid to say No! God has a mate for you and your future husband/wife
will be honoured you waited for them. It is hard to wait especially when you
allow certain priviledges to a certain someone, but... I know that waiting is
the best!
Entry of Jan
2, 2000 at 20:29 [EST]
From: Christy
- jdfletcher@lynxus.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: My name is Christy and I live in Cincy, Ohio. I have chosen
to remain "pure" until marriage. The word pure is a very important
key term. Not only do I want to wait until marriage to have sex, but I do not
want to "fool around" either. I thought my (ex)boyfriend respected
that, but he didn't really have a clue at all. We are no longer together. I
am currently holding out for some kind of guy who will respect my decision.
There are very few of them out there.
Entry of Jan
3, 2000 at 22:36 [EST]
From: Scott
Foreman - Scootameaux@prodigy.net
Age: 24
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I have remained abstinent because I know that sex is a gift
from God and meant for a marriage relationship only.
Entry of Jan
4, 2000 at 13:06 [EST]
From: Laura
- PuelaBreve@hotmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months. Within the
first few weeks of going out we began setting limits for ourselves. It is so
important to be able to communicate. We are able to tell each other if we feel
uncomfortable with anything. It is the best feeling in the world knowing that
we are saving that ultimate gift for each other.
Entry of Jan
4, 2000 at 19:13 [EST]
From: Katie
Shepherd - kas_03_84@yahoo.com
Age:
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Jan
5, 2000 at 16:44 [EST]
From: Aeryn
Gibson - heav_n_lee@hotmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Arkansas and there isn't much to do here except get
drunk because alchohol is so easy to get, and have sex becaus there are so many
people that are willing. Boys try to tell me that I'm pretty and that I'm smart
just to get into my pants...so what tell me something that I don't know!!! I
value my body and my well being too much to let someone else have the very virtue
that I hold highest above everything. It's like the ultimatum, would you rather
have a new car or an old raggedy beat up car...well my future husband is definitely
getting a new car!!!
Entry of Jan
5, 2000 at 17:24 [EST]
From: melanie
- LicenseToFlirt@webtv.net
Age: 16
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: well i live in ohio. i think this is a great website. but just
like any other i disagree and agree with some things.
Entry of Jan
5, 2000 at 20:39 [EST]
From: Margerette
Basham - love.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: I live in Texas. I am different from all these other people
in the sense that I did not wait until marriage to have sexual intercourse.
The consequences for my actions: Juggling school, home life and an 11 month
old baby.Don't get me wrong, I love my daughter more than anything in this world.
I just wish I would have got to know my ex-husband better to know that all he
wanted to do was get me pregnant and leave. You see I slept with him and got
pregnant, so I married him. No one needs to make that mistake. Just never let
anyone put you down for believing in marriage before sex!!!!!!!!!
Entry of Jan
5, 2000 at 21:57 [EST]
From: Ashley
- smilesalot@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am from Alabama. Ever since it has been an issue for the
people my age around me, God has always shown me he wants the very best for
me and he has called me to purity. It is such a blessing.
Entry of Jan
9, 2000 at 12:32 [EST]
From: aron
- abalok@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: hi I'm from crownpoint, new mexico. I had an encounter in the
past, but have recommitted to living pure until the time is right. your site
has been a great source of reassurance and support, thanks, aron
Entry of Jan
9, 2000 at 18:26 [EST]
From: Lori
Stulken - lstulken@wagner.k12.sd.us
Age: 26
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in a very small town in South Dakota. :o) I am so grateful
that God has saved me from the scars of sex before marriage!
Entry of Jan
10, 2000 at 15:01 [EST]
From: Shannon
Meader - cloud12345@hotmail.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I believe that you should wait until marriage because, it says
in the bible you can screw up your whole life by having premarital sex, and
not being able to find true love, it says if you want that kind of love you
will be wise enough to wait for it
Entry of Jan
11, 2000 at 17:37 [EST]
From: Jessica
Powell - elmofreak4@aol.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I am from Center Star, Alabama...its not a big town at all(i
don't even know if it is big enough to be called a town). I am a virgin and
plan to be until I am married. The last two years have been pretty rough.....it
just seems like everyone is doing it. I always try to tell my friends not to
have sex..most listen. They can't see the affects of it like I can. My mom was
not married when she was pregnant with me and my brother(we are twins). She
has never been married. She got pregnant when she was 21, and my father left
her, he said he wasn't ready for the responspibilty of children. So we have
struggled for 15 years, trying to make it on her income only. She never has
gotten married. She is in a pretty serious relationship right now, and I remind
her everyday not to have sex, telling her to look at what happened before when
she did. I know she has had sex with one other person besides my father. She
knows I think it is wrong, and she tells me that it is good that i know it is
wrong. I don't think she will have sex with the man she is with now until after
marraige. But I just wished that everyone could understand how much it can hurt
if you get pregnant or get someone else pregnant. You may think because it is
protected sex that it is ok, but it isn't if you only knew how many people get
pregnant from having "protected" sex. So much for that concept. I
just wish I knew why they teach protected sex in school instead of formication.