
294 Entries on this page.
Here is what some previous guests have written about their commitment to abstinence:
Entry of May
27, 2000 at 11:03 [EST]
From: Jeff
- none
Age: 34
How I found your page: A publication
Comments: Although it's been difficult at times, I have never regretted
my commitment to abstinence. The Lord always gives me the grace to endure. I
trust somewhere out there is my future wife and I hope and pray she is saving
herself for me as I am for her.
Entry of May
28, 2000 at 15:18 [EST]
From: Becky
- yellowhippy@yahoo.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I've just painfully split from my boyfriend because of it,
but no sex before marriage is the best way to be. I know that my wedding night
will be fantastic, because of the trust and security that comes from marriage.
Entry of May
30, 2000 at 19:45 [EST]
From: Sarah
J. Neighbarger
- s489201@rio.edu
Age: 19
How I found your page: Link from Ellen's Home Page
Comments: I go to the University of Rio Grande but my hometown is Fredericktown,
Ohio.
Entry of May
30, 2000 at 23:48 [EST]
From: Jacqueline
- livin4him18@hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: i am really honored to say that yes i am waiting until marriage,
and i think your website is awesome! it has a lot of True facts. in God's mighty
grip God Bless You & your girlfriend +++++
Entry of Jun
3, 2000 at 13:15 [EST]
From: Susan
- Sbeasley@cffw.com
Age: 40
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I remained a virgin until I was married at 25. I just knew
I would get pregnant that first time & I didn't want to face my Mom & God. I
currently work for an abstinence organization called CHOICES/TEEN AWARENESS
in So Cal.
Entry of Jun
4, 2000 at 16:13 [EST]
From: Sarah
- SDPSally63@aol.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I am still a young teen, yes I know this, but my b/f and I
have resisted sex, and we are proud of it. It is so hard! We just have to keep
on praying!!!
Entry of Jun
4, 2000 at 17:59 [EST]
From: jackie
- jbarry64@yahoo.com
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Age: 17
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: i live in the eastern shore of maryland. this page helped so
much with my human sexuality project for my junior class as well as my own personal
growth. it was a hard decision to make and to think i almost gave it up scares
the heck out of me. please feel free to email me. any support would be super.
i promise to return all mail :)
Entry of Jun
5, 2000 at 19:21 [EST]
From: Lori
- laf169@psu.edu
Age: 25
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am a grad student living in Pennsylvania. I have been saved
since I was 10 years old and have made a decision to abstain from sex until
I marry. I believe that through intercourse, you not only share your emotions
with a person, but this union (becoming one) involves sharing of spirits as
well. I desire to share "like" spirits (saved and holy-ghost filled)
and I think this should be reserved for one person...your lifetime partner.
With God as my father, Christ as my friend, and the Holy Spirit as my guide,
I've been given the strength to stay true to this committment and I rest assured
that the Lord will honor this decision.
Entry of Jun
7, 2000 at 03:04 [EST]
From: Joshua
Oliver - Sideburns1981@cs.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Rancho Cucamonga, California. It is about an hour
drive east of L.A.
Entry of Jun
8, 2000 at 14:19 [EST]
From: Chris
Foster - CFoster51782@AOL.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Aurora, Colorado
Entry of Jun
11, 2000 at 06:15 [EST]
From: Tania
Santiago - tany_fany@hotmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: i live in australia and i think waiting would be better the
rushing into any thing.
Entry of Jun
14, 2000 at 07:53 [EST]
From: APRIL
- ALAPRIL@AOL.COM
Age: 20
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: ABOUT 20 MINUTES SOUTH OF BIRMINGHAM ALABAMA IN SHELBY COUNTY.
Entry of Jun
14, 2000 at 14:13 [EST]
From: Kakali
- Alldada@hotmail.com
Age: 28
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in USA. I cannot tell you how much your site means to
me. I am a struggling virgin. I have not had sex and I have to decided to wait
but it is a battle everyday. I have a boyfriend who loves me and is ready to
wait for marriage. He is stronger in his conviction than I am in mine and that
helps me so much. I struggle with masturbation too and with the fact that he
lives about two states away from me. I am taking it a day at a time. It is nice
to know that he and I are not just some crazy wierdos. God bless you all and
Thank you Ellen
Entry of Jun
16, 2000 at 15:08 [EST]
From: l
- l
Age:
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments:
Entry of Jun
17, 2000 at 23:35 [EST]
From: aj
- jflyirl4ual
Age: 22
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: Colorado, but I travel to all major cities
Entry of Jun
18, 2000 at 23:12 [EST]
From: Toni
Griffing - bluedolphin61@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Iowa and I think this is a good thing to do.
Entry of Jun
19, 2000 at 14:25 [EST]
From: Leann
- luv2shopxo@aol.com
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Age: 23/F
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in SC and I am very interested in meeting or talking
to people in my area who feel it is worth waiting for marriage. Feel free to
email me if you would like to chat. :o)
Entry of Jun
23, 2000 at 16:14 [EST]
From: Cat
Zermatt - rebornvirg@aol.com
Age: 36
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: www.rebornvirgin.com
Entry of Jun
28, 2000 at 21:09 [EST]
From: Rachel
Roberts - musiclarinet18@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I go to Hardin-Simmons University in Abilene, TX. I have done
"True Love Waits", and, Praise the Lord, I am still a virgin! I have
many friends who have given into the pressure, but I haven't, please pray for
me and my friends (my best friend just found out that she is 7 weeks pregnant).
God Bless You!!!
Entry of Jun
28, 2000 at 23:02 [EST]
From: Jeni
- stretch0921@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: I live in TN and am about to start college at UT Martin. I
have promised myself, my parents, & my God that I would remain pure until I
said "I DO" in front of a pastor. It hasn't been easy, but God never
promised me a bed of roses.
Entry of Jun
30, 2000 at 20:06 [EST]
From: sherline
rene - sherlineAfrica@aol.com
Age: 21
How I found your page: Other
Comments: i live in miami,fl
Entry of Jul
1, 2000 at 21:17 [EST]
From: John
- JohnnyP@hotmail.com
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Age: 23
How I found your page: Link from Ellen's Home Page
Comments: I have committed myself to abstinence until marriage and fidelity
within marriage. I believe it is what God wants for all of us as his children.
Right now I am doing full-time missionary work trying to get the message out
there to young people. I have taught in Chicago Public Schools in the inner
city the importance of and the benefits of waiting until you are married. The
free sex lifestyle has destroyed our society for many years now and it is time
we rebuild it with God-centered families. Any comments please e-mail me at JohnnyP212@hotmail.com
Entry of Jul
4, 2000 at 16:53 [EST]
From: Ellie
Curtis - Virgin_1961@webtv.net
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Age: 39
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am in Yakima Wa and have just realized I am the OLDEST VIRGIN
that has signed this guestbook;and how cool is that?!:-) No matter what I plan
to remain a Virgin until my wedding night. There has been much pressure from
men--their typical attitude is "I bought you dinner,so you OWE me."
Then trying to make me feel guilty afterwards,when i've said NO for the billioneth
time. Due to that attitude,I don't date anymore as I cannot trust men. I have
ALWAYS believed that my virginity is a VERY SPECIAL GIFT I give ONLY to my husband--He
WILL ALWAYS BE THE ONLY ONE:MY ONE TRUE LOVE. I hope that everyone who also
plans to wait will have as much strength as I do,and stick by your decsion NO
MATTER WHAT..There is NO "Born-Again Virgin".Once you've lost it,you
can NEVER,EVER get it back.God's Blessings & Much Love~ ellie ~
Entry of Jul
6, 2000 at 05:46 [EST]
From: no
name - curious_dissapointed@yahoo.com
Age: 21
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Still a virgin, and waiting for the right one.
Entry of Jul
6, 2000 at 15:56 [EST]
From: nikkim
- nikkim51@hotmail.com
Age: 31
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Atlanta, GA
Entry of Jul
7, 2000 at 11:46 [EST]
From: Cara
- Litella82@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: this site is great! Reading the guestbook was the most encouraging
thing! I thought i was one of the only virgins, not only in my group of friends,
but of everyone my age. thank you for showing me that i am not alone, and most
importantly, that there are GUYS out there making this commitment too! Good
luck to everyone.
Entry of Jul
8, 2000 at 01:07 [EST]
From: Christina
- prolife.guide@about.com
Age: 38
How I found your page: A publication
Comments: It took me until I was in my 30's, after heartbreaks, a miscarriage,
a divorce, and a lot of misery for myself and others, to learn that God gives
us rules because He loves us. I salute young people who wise up without messing
up other people's lives like I did.
Entry of Jul
8, 2000 at 16:28 [EST]
From: steph
wilson - stephwilson@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I'm from IN and I'm competing in a pageant in a couple of weeks.
My platform is on Sexual Abstinence until marriage! Let's make sure the word
gets spread so others know there's hope and a way to say no! =)
Entry of Jul
8, 2000 at 16:37 [EST]
From: Kit
- kitbert@yahoo.com
Age: 39
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I thought I was alone until I learned about the ACGreen Bear.
Then I search on Yahoo for AC support groups. It's not because of religious
believe that keep me in tact. It's just my will power keeps me from being stupid
like most. There's no reason for us to give our virginity and respect alway
for sexual pleasure. Making love is a sacred thing between two people in love.
I will not do what animals do because I have a brain. :-)
Entry of Jul
11, 2000 at 14:03 [EST]
From: Rachel
- missrache@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in Midland MI. I am a virgin and will remain so until
my wedding night. I have become really passionate about this subject because
of my volunteer job as a crisis pregnancy counselor. I hope to start a support
group for teens choosing abstinence. i currently do presentations to school
and church groups.
Entry of Jul
11, 2000 at 19:11 [EST]
From: JDC
- danielo_tservoni@yahoo.com
Age: 21
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: I must comment others for the efforts they've made in saving
themselves for marriage. Its not easy, and I'm glad virgins my age still exist.
Also, I hope to God that the older among us find what they are looking for.
Entry of Jul
13, 2000 at 01:28 [EST]
From: Rachel
Breithaupt -
dkbreit@ont.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I just want to tell everyone that signs this guestbook that
they truly made a very good decision to wait until marrige to have sex. After
all if the guy really loves you he'll wait.
Entry of Jul
13, 2000 at 04:00 [EST]
From: Amber
- pflwr@yahoo.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Jul
15, 2000 at 17:12 [EST]
From: Mary
Elizabeth Alexander
- notavailable.
Age: 18
How I found your page: A publication
Comments: Massachusetts
Entry of Jul
17, 2000 at 14:35 [EST]
From: Miriam
Arceo - miriam_arceo@yahoo.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in California and I am very proud to hold up to sex
until marriage.
Entry of Jul
18, 2000 at 22:10 [EST]
From: ow
yang chiew hong
- oych81@themail.com
Age:
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Kedah. Malaysia.
Entry of Jul
25, 2000 at 19:21 [EST]
From: TOM
- CRTECH@ACCI.GR
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Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: PLEASE WRITE ME AT CRTECH@ACCI.GR
Entry of Jul
26, 2000 at 14:48 [EST]
From: KaTesha
Sagers-Aguayo
- ksag@yahoo.com
Age:
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments:
Entry of Aug
1, 2000 at 10:05 [EST]
From: Christina
O'Herron - TOTHEMOON9@aol.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in upstate New York. Actually, I came across this website
by researching information about the pros and cons of premarital sex. I feel
very strongly against premarital sex and am writing a persuasive essay for class
on this issue. I found this website very helpful, and I will be including some
of the information that I read about here in my essay -- Thank You!
Entry of Aug
2, 2000 at 02:52 [EST]
From: Andrea
- drea_gurl
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Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Hell my name is Andrea and I am from California. I choose to
become abstinence last summer when i began to feel the pressures of sex. My
best friend is now pregnant and droped out of school to have her child. this
makes me very upset because she had also wanted to stay this way until marriage.
All of my friends think I can not do it because "everyone says that"
but I am going to do it. I have never really met anyone special or a friend
who feels the same truthful way as i do. Yet, I am having a lot of troble finding
acutal clubs to join in my community and meet people just like me. So if you
have any information that can help me i would appreciate it. Or Email me at
drea_gurl@college.com Thanks and its great to see i am not the only one left!!
Entry of Aug
2, 2000 at 21:19 [EST]
From: Jaclyn
Schultz - Eveleen126@aol.com
Age:
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments:
Entry of Aug
5, 2000 at 15:11 [EST]
From: sheria
brown - www.teach11thetop.com
Age: 13
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: Ilive on a ghetto block with so called huslers and fresh people.
Entry of Aug
5, 2000 at 15:25 [EST]
From: Modupe
Williams - MISS1K@collegeclub.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Other
Comments:
Entry of Aug
5, 2000 at 23:29 [EST]
From: Linda
Overbeck - Perfecten16@hotmail.com
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Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Hello My Name is Linda, I Live in a small corn town called
Minooka, IL. I think that it is so great that their are still people out there
that share the same beliefs and moral as I do. I can count the amount of friends
that I have that are still Virgins in one hand so it nice to know that I have
people out there I can talk to about this sort of stuff and not feel lame I
would love to hear from all of you if you have the chance to write to me.
Entry of Aug
8, 2000 at 07:00 [EST]
From: Brad
- IRBradles@Hotmail.com
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Age: 19
How I found your page: Other
Comments: Redcliffe Qld - Down Under in Oz Found site because I'm doing
some research so that I can take a stand againist the "safe sex" camp
and advocate the "saved sex" position. Feel Free to write
Entry of Aug
11, 2000 at 23:44 [EST]
From: Marquita
Wood - swood1@carolina.rr.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Aug
12, 2000 at 23:34 [EST]
From: Kathleen
Dougherty - doughertyk@msn.com
Age: 44
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I am from Philadelphia. I really want to save sex for marriage.
I am not a virgin but I know pre-marital sex leads to a dead end. I hope God
forgives me for all past sins and gives me the strength to do His Will. It is
very difficult, especially for someone my age, but I have learned that God's
way is the only way. Let's pray for each other. Thank you for your web site.
Entry of Aug
13, 2000 at 02:14 [EST]
From: Kristina
- ru_pikl@aol.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I'm a college student at Radford University (VA) and had a
very "close" night with my boyfriend of over a year. Thank you for
this website, because it really did help me to get my mind back on track...
~kjk.
Entry of Aug
15, 2000 at 15:07 [EST]
From: Cari
- hopecarolina@hotmail.com
Age: 24
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: I'm from NC and work for a crisis pregnancy center as the campus
liaison at a large university. This website is great and I will recommend it
to everyone who will listen! It is encouraging for me to see so many college
and high school age people committing to remain abstinent!
Entry of Aug
17, 2000 at 06:29 [EST]
From: ahmed
- ahmedh4@hotmail.com
Age: 26
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Im living in dubai U.A.E
Entry of Aug
17, 2000 at 08:39 [EST]
From: susan
- jn@inuae.com
Age: 23
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: I am living in Dubai
Entry of Aug
22, 2000 at 17:46 [EST]
From: Constance
- none
Age: 36
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I am Client Services Coordinator for a N.C. based Crisis Pregnancy
Center and your web page is wonderful.
Entry of Aug
22, 2000 at 20:28 [EST]
From: Casey
- cwalker_02@yahoo.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Madisonville, Tennessee
Entry of Aug
25, 2000 at 01:12 [EST]
From: Katie
- Katy4Peace@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: okay. im doing this for myself. i am lately having a very difficult
time with this whole abstinence thing. its rough. but i KNOW i need to wait.
i know its what God wants from me. and after all the good in my life and all
the graces he has sent my way...i can't betray him in that way. i know its the
best thing for me. and no matter what happens, if my boyfriend leaves me, Jesus
will love me and send me someone else, someone better who feels the way i do.
thanks.
Entry of Aug
25, 2000 at 15:48 [EST]
From: Kelvin
Mahadeo - ruffian2@hotmail.com
Age: 22
How I found your page: Link from Ellen's Home Page
Comments: In this day and age, to be a virgin is the hardest challege
out there. 99% of people are having sex and I'm the outsider who just has to
listen and not contribute to the conversation. People are always suprised when
I tell them that I'm waiting for marriage. I fully believe that you can be abstinent.
Keep the faith!! -Toronto, Canada
Entry of Aug
26, 2000 at 17:00 [EST]
From: Hilary
- hilaria77@aol.com
Age: 23
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: So wonderful to read have support and listen to others questioning
and going through the same experiences that I am in an attempt to continue abstinence
in my relationship.
Entry of Sep
1, 2000 at 15:23 [EST]
From: amy
gates - deneeamy@aol.com
Age: 28
How I found your page: Other
Comments: Chicago, IL
Entry of Sep
1, 2000 at 20:33 [EST]
From: Louise
- kbrown@qklaw.com
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Age: 36
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I live in Los Angeles. I find it distressing that I seem to
be sooooo old in comparison to the majority of your writers, and have made this
decision. After a difficult experience with my boyfriend 2 years ago I decided
to become chaste and to re-dedicate my life to God. My boyfriend came back to
me a year after our break-up and I foolishly fell again into fornication. That
was very painful for me as he hadn't changed and only spoke religiously. It
has been a year now and a struggle. I look very young for my age and I go out
on dates and get asked out quite frequently. I am surprised at how sexual guys
are immediately with me. I don't know if it's because I am older and they just
expect it or because I am not a virgin. It's difficult to explain to a guy when
I first start dating them that sex outside of marriage is not an option. They
just think that I'm a religious fanatic and dump me. I am really frightened
that I may end up an old maid. Please offer any advice that you can to me. I
am praying daily but am depressed about what seems like an impossible situation.
Thanks.
Entry of Sep
2, 2000 at 06:26 [EST]
From: scott
cornwell - noemailnow@aol.com
Age: 31
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Doing it for the Lord and my future wife. Both deserve it
Entry of Sep
3, 2000 at 01:07 [EST]
From: meghan
johnson - meg92@bolt.com
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Age: 14
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: well, i live in illinois. recently, i found out one of my best
friends, who is also 14, is pregnant. i've been strong on abstinence for a while,
but never had any motivation to back it up. i've had boyfriends who have pressured
me into it, but i never gave in. i stuck to my morals and Christian beliefs.
i'm a high school freshman, and i want to start an abstinence support group
at school for teens who also support abstinence. with my friends and current
boyfriend, i'm getting support, but not what i was hoping for. my parents think
it's a great idea, but i need support from my peers. what should i do to get
this support group off the ground? email me back with your thoughts. thnx! always,
meghan
Entry of Sep
5, 2000 at 12:50 [EST]
From: Shawne
Jones - shaylove23@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: Merchantville, NJ
Entry of Sep
5, 2000 at 17:48 [EST]
From: aljagal
- aljagal@yahoo.com
Age:
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Sep
7, 2000 at 09:21 [EST]
From: Peter
- PRO
Age: 23
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments:
Entry of Sep
8, 2000 at 12:27 [EST]
From: Chris
D. French - cfrench@cmsmech.com
Age: 25
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in California. My girlfriend and I of four years have
talked about this before, and I want to be able to devote something to God that
I know will better my life and the life of my sweetheart. After much consideration
and reading, I feel that this is a turning point in my life to make the commitment
to wait until marriage.
Entry of Sep
10, 2000 at 07:52 [EST]
From: nkssrao
- nkssrao@zeemail.com
Age: 26
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: indiracolony,parvatipuram,A.P., INDIA
Entry of Sep
11, 2000 at 22:54 [EST]
From: Heather
- green-eyed-chic@excite.com
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Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Southern California, and I am proud to say that I
am practicing ABSTINENCE . Although I feel a bit stupid because I have already
had sex, and I am going for Second Virginity. So it is really hard for me to
do. I was wondering if there are any others out there who are making the same
choice,a nd if they had any advice for me. I know this is going to be successful,
but I also know that this is going to be hard. I am waiting for my true-love,
but I know that I have already 'blown it'. Am I wasting my time?
Entry of Sep
12, 2000 at 14:47 [EST]
From: emily
- emily@ppaz.org
Age: 24
How I found your page: Other
Comments: Sex before marriage is like forcing open petals on a rose,
it causes so much damage and takes away from its beauty. Choosing abstinence
after already having sex is like planting a new seed that allows a new rose
to grow so that you can enjoy it in its time.
Entry of Sep
13, 2000 at 12:23 [EST]
From: April
- tweety_98_01@yahoo.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: i have engaged in sex before marriage and it is hard to be
abstinent afterwards. The guy and i are not together anymore, we were together
for a year and a half afterwards. and i have asked for forgivness and i feel
God has forgiven me. So there is hope out there for everyone. this is a really
good site! it has helped me a lot. and i now know that i can go on. thanks!
Entry of Sep
14, 2000 at 18:23 [EST]
From: Greg
- bandcb@tbcnet.com
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Age: 23
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in Sycamore ILLinois township. Write to me if u want
to :O) I will reply asap.
Entry of Sep
16, 2000 at 11:51 [EST]
From: brenda
- brendaspears@hotmail.com
Age: 14
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments: Hi my name is brenda. I live in IRELAND jes and liz you rock.p.s
i love todd he is so cute
Entry of Sep
17, 2000 at 17:39 [EST]
From: Heather
M - fizz008@aol.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: I live in Wheeling IL. I just want to say that having the strength
and the patiance to put up with so many jerks that think you are weird because
you are still a virgin is hard. I'm the only person in my group of friends that
is waiting for marriage. I have been made fun of and some guys actually tried
to talk me out of it! But I know that my virginity is the best gift I can give
to my husband. Hopefully I will find a man who understands my decision to wait.
Entry of Sep
17, 2000 at 18:13 [EST]
From: Heather
M. - fizz008@aol.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: Wheeling, IL...Kudos to all of you! its nice to see such a
variety of ages here. Trust me after being in a series of horrifying relationships
you start to become bitter about the opposite sex. But after all that heart
ache...I stayed strong and remain a virgin. I have been single for almost a
year now and it does get a bit lonely but if my virginity is a problem for a
guy then he's not worth my time!
Entry of Sep
18, 2000 at 16:08 [EST]
From: Casey
- butterfly_4_84@yahoo.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I really think that teenagers should wait to have sex until
they are married. I think that if you find the right person and your married
then go for it. There are a lot of diseases out there and you can get them very
easily. So I'm going to wait for the one man that I want. I live in Pennsylvania.
Entry of Sep
23, 2000 at 01:32 [EST]
From: DMK
- knightd@ucs.orst.edu
Age: 27
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Oregon. I just broke up with a guy who wanted to have sex before
marriage. I made a descion early on to wait, and I'm glad that I remained true
to my beliefs. The breakup hurt, but the guilt that would have been present
had I gone all the way would have hurt so much more. Stay with what you believe
in. It may be hard, but in the end it will all be worth it.
Entry of Sep
24, 2000 at 20:47 [EST]
From: Christina
Williams - ccdanz4jes@aol.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Sep
24, 2000 at 23:32 [EST]
From: nathalia
- ricky@lovemail.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: A publication
Comments: i live in makassar,south sulawesi. its a very beatiful place
which its people is so nice. when i was wrote this comment i feel so bored because
there is nobody now about my problem that i have. i can't say more than this
because i don't know what i must wrote.
Entry of Sep
26, 2000 at 05:51 [EST]
From: paul.
- you_cant_kill_us_all@juno.com
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Age: 18
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments: I love my girlfriend alot. We live 900 miles away. Sometimes
I have a hard time trusting people and especially people I love. How can I find
out she's really true to me and I can believe her.
Entry of Sep
27, 2000 at 14:38 [EST]
From: Cynthia
Ramirez - cynthia278@hotmail.com
Age: 22
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Hi! I'm from beautiful Puerto Rico. I want to CONGRATULATE
you guys for taking the time for making this type of information available.
God will truly bless you! Gracias (Thanks) cynthia
Entry of Sep
27, 2000 at 19:36 [EST]
From: Crystal
Corbin - CrystalCorbin2000@yahoo.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Lewisville Texas
Entry of Sep
28, 2000 at 20:08 [EST]
From: Marie
- Im4EvaYours00@aol.com
Age:
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in Texas.
Entry of Sep
30, 2000 at 17:35 [EST]
From: Rachel
- WestieJ5@aol.com
Age: 13
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Hi! I live in Virginia and I have chosen to remain a virgin
until I am married. I think it is important for everyone including older people
to REMAIN virgins until MARRIAGE! I haven't met anyone yet that I love in that
way and probably won't for a long time but when I do, I am going to wait and
not fall into temptation. Everyone else out there, wait...its worth it!
Entry of Oct
1, 2000 at 15:21 [EST]
From: Sara
Domago - angel_7@loveable.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in the state of NY, and I'm currently going to college
at Mohack Valley in Utica.My house is upstate where the snow is about six ft.
deep every winter. I ski at Snow Ridge Ski Resort in Turin. I'm curently involved
with a guy that is in the Air Force. We've been together for about a year and
a half. I hope to marry him, but it is really hard to control yourself in those
special moments. I am still a virgin, plan to stay that way until marriage.
Entry of Oct
1, 2000 at 16:48 [EST]
From: Omer
Yusaf - omery@doctor.com
Age: 27
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Hi, I just wanna say that your site has helped me today tremendously
to stick to the vow of celibacy i have taken. It had started to become difficult
for me to stick to it but now i know that i am not alone, that other intelligent
individuals are out there who have made the same informed decision, its a relief
to know this i must tell you. Best of luck to all.
Entry of Oct
3, 2000 at 21:29 [EST]
From: candi
ward - lecidnac@aol.com
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Age: 17
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: let's see, i'm from rhea county, tn...i'm sure u haven't heard
of it!!! but i have signed true love waits and i have made a promise to God
not to have sex before marriage!!!...i'm very proud of my decision and i am
not afraid to let anyone know...it's easy to get in a situation where it's forced
on u...but just stay strong and remember your day will come and pray sooo hard!!
if u ever need anyone to talk to, just write me sometime!...also, i'm very proud
of all u guys out there b/c i know it's hard to face "the boys" and
tell them u are a virgin!..so a big up to all of u!!
Entry of Oct
5, 2000 at 02:03 [EST]
From: Veronica
Lopez - vebe1@yahoo.com
Age: 25
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in Pasadena, California I found this web page while
searching for a good topic to talk about on my speech class. I thought about
abstinence because I believe that is the right way of forming a good, stable
and happy family. I am also christian and I am going thru hard times with my
boyfriend whom I am marrying in aproximately 1 year. I strongly believe that
it is my responsability to talk to other people about this and will promote
your site and make sure that the word of the Lord is spread all over the world.
Thank you for creating such a great site the young people need it.
Entry of Oct
5, 2000 at 14:01 [EST]
From: Andrea
Parisi - acparisi@liberty.edu
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: My purpose for checking out this web page was to give some
helpful info. to a Christian friend who is struggling with sexual temptation.
She wants to turn away from this sin but is not ready to make a commitment,
because she wants to read up on the subject. Thanks for this practical info.;
I'm sure it will be of help to my friend, and it has strengthened my belief
that premaritial sex is wrong.
Entry of Oct
8, 2000 at 13:55 [EST]
From: Amanda
Gross - manders219@hotmail.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Hi I'm from Pittsburgh. I have made the decision to stay pure
for my future husband and I am interested in meeting people who have made the
same committment!
Entry of Oct
8, 2000 at 23:47 [EST]
From: Lauren
Kleist - weimarowner@ibelieve.com
Age: 35
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I'm from the Pittsburgh, PA area, and I've been a born-again
Christian since I was 8 years old. I've always known I wanted to save sex for
marriage. I want that to be my gift to my husband, whether or not he is still
a virgin. I realize that in this point in my life, it gets harder and harder
to find a man that's a virgin, so I've reconciled with that. It's OK, as long
as he's been abstinate for a long time, and as long as he is a Godly committed
Christian man. I just never pictured myself having to wait this long, but I
know it will be well worth it. I'm looking forward to a loving wedding (k)night,
and no bad memories to haunt me.
Entry of Oct
11, 2000 at 11:17 [EST]
From: Tonya
- tky00@yahoo.com
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Age: 27
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: This website has been a great experience for me. I have been
trying to abstain from sex to no avail. I have been convicted and I think my
problem was that I felt like I was fooling myself. It was too late for me, I'm
a single mother and there was not turning back.. But God's mercy is everlasting
and it is with Him that I can do this. I want to wait until I get married and
I have told boyfriends this in the past, but never been strong enough to stand
firm in my belief. I realize now that if I tell a man that I want to wait until
I'm married and he can't accept that, he is not the man God has sent for me.
I welcome any encouragement to help me be strong.
Entry of Oct
12, 2000 at 10:53 [EST]
From: Jessie
- Beauvais
Age: 19
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Dayton OH - school Michigan - home
Entry of Oct
13, 2000 at 12:19 [EST]
From: Greg
- comklutz@aol.com
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Age: 23
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in Illinois, in Sycamore township. Write to me, anyone.
If you are a girl and want a guy friend [not necissarily a boyfriend] write
to me. I will reply asap.[as soon as possible]
Entry of Oct
16, 2000 at 14:22 [EST]
From: Tia
Mack - shay81mack99@hotmail.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I live in Maryland. I just want the creator of this web site
to know that the information that they have released was and is a true blessing.
I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years, when I met him I was a
Virgin but today I am not. I too am a firm believer in Christ and if I was not
sexually active my walk with Christ would be perfect. My flesh is so weak, I
am continuously in prayer, for strength and wisdom and understanding. Once again
thanks again, this site has truly enlightened me. God bless!!!!
Entry of Oct
17, 2000 at 22:04 [EST]
From: patrick
malloy - patrick.malloy@sanctumhomes.com
Age: 30
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: overland park, kansas
Entry of Oct
18, 2000 at 21:12 [EST]
From: Erica
Alexander - SSHORTY4LIFE@aol.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Montgomery, AL.
Entry of Oct
21, 2000 at 17:19 [EST]
From: jennifer
- Jenn_Timberlake1@yahoo.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: i live in NY and i am personally commited to god andhis plans
for my life. god bless those who have trouble signing this book! god be with
you,.
Entry of Oct
22, 2000 at 15:06 [EST]
From: Holly
Messenger - hollymessenger@hotmail.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I just want to say that this website helped me tremendously,
as I am currently working on a persuasive speech on abstinence. Thanks a bunch!
Entry of Oct
22, 2000 at 21:39 [EST]
From: Jesse
-
Age: 18
How I found your page: Other
Comments: I decided a few years ago to abstain from sex until I get married;
but this is difficult in our oversexed society. I've spent a lot of time the
past few months trying to convince other people to follow me, but to little
avail. My reasons are somewhat unorthodox: I recognize the total natural meaninglessness
of the universe, and try to compensate by creating artificial meaning. One way
to do this is to have absolute and timeless sexual exclusivity with your partner--ie,
one person, ever. This doesn't seem compelling to other people. So I've looked
around the net for other people's reasons for celibacy, but haven't found much
compelling. The arguments generally rest on practical reasons (STDs, pregnancy),
heartbreak, and religion (which, as an atheist, turns me off); actual morality
of sex is mostly undiscussed,
Entry of Oct
22, 2000 at 21:42 [EST]
From: Jesse
- same
Age: 18
How I found your page: Other
Comments: (Continued...) or people decide that the moral choice is to
have only one partner at a time, but very little beyond that. So here I am,
still trying to figure out how to sway as many minds as possible. Good luck
to me, heh. Still, I find it quite heartening that this guestbook is so large;
it demonstrates that I'm not ENTIRELY alone. Thanks. --Jesse (Portland, OR)
Entry of Oct
22, 2000 at 23:36 [EST]
From: Michelle
Roberts - emichelleroberts@hotmail.com
Age: 21
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Idaho, going to college. I'm from Alaska...I found
this doing research for a presentation on abstinence....awesome!
Entry of Oct
23, 2000 at 13:49 [EST]
From: Robyn
Johnson - RJ58@email.byu.edu
Age: 20
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Oct
24, 2000 at 09:29 [EST]
From: Kyle
Semler - sem
sem23@aol.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: I'm too lazy to tell you
Comments:
Entry of Oct
26, 2000 at 00:01 [EST]
From: SHEILA
B. PETERSON -
SPETE10338@ALO.COM
Age: 43
How I found your page: Other
Comments: PHILADELPHIA, PENNA.
Entry of Oct
27, 2000 at 23:51 [EST]
From: Sonja
- don't
want to provide@sonja.com
Age: 28
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I am an educated and professional woman who has chosen to remain
chaste until and if I marry. It has been very difficult and when I was younger
I did receive a lot of harrassment. Now that I am older I realize that God is
the one who knows best. While I hope to marry, I'm learning that if that doesn't
happen it's ok. Just to let you know that you are not alone no matter how old
you are; I work in geriatrics and have actually met women & men as old as 89
who have never had sex. These individuals are not "weird" or somehow
socially inept. They have a deep commitment to God. Now, while I commend them
for their conviction, I must admit to praying that I will eventually get married
and have a loving relationship. For most, I believe that it will happen but
if you don't find that someone special that God has found for you, keep in mind
that it's ok. Marriage is a great and wonderful thing but remember you need
to base your self-respect, self-esteem and overall feeling of self-worth on
God and your relationship with him. If you think that marriage will provide
you with these things, you will be unhappy. Well, I've written a great deal.
I just feel greatful that many of the people reading this have the same type
of committment and hope that I do. Have a wonderful & happy life!!!
Entry of Oct
28, 2000 at 20:21 [EST]
From: Lindsay
Lane - Lindsay_Lane@baylor.edu
Age: 18
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I'm a freshman in college and I promised to stay pure in front
of my whole church. We did a True Love Waits ceremony and I promised myself,
my parents and most importantly God that I will not engage in sexual relations
until after I was married.
Entry of Oct
29, 2000 at 15:05 [EST]
From: Kelly
Williams - kjwilliams2@student.tcu.edu
Age: 19
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Ft Worth, Texas
Entry of Oct
29, 2000 at 20:51 [EST]
From: Juellisa
- jewel540@cnu.edu
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Sex is a gift to share with one and only one person.
Entry of Oct
30, 2000 at 00:17 [EST]
From: Aimee
Williams - loneflowr@aol.com
Age: 23
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: i live in san marcos texas. i go to southwest texas state university,
a renowned party school. i am not involved with anyone, but i want to be and
its hard not to think about sex all the time. this is a great site to encourage
the commmitment to God and myself.
Entry of Oct
30, 2000 at 00:48 [EST]
From: Molly
Hall - praisegirl24@yahoo.com
Age: 29
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Oct
31, 2000 at 13:02 [EST]
From: nicole
- cole726_2000@yahoo.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: ventura county, ca
Entry of Nov
2, 2000 at 09:11 [EST]
From: Shelly
- Rachelle_Graham@Jackson.CC.MI.US
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I am doing a paper on this subject, and as I was reading through
geting ideas, I saw this link for your guest book. Being commited to abstinence
myself, I took the liberty of signing it. Thanks for this sight!
Entry of Nov
5, 2000 at 14:16 [EST]
From: Kera
- kera@nbn.net
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: thanks for that letter kurt wrote and the steps to remain abstinate.
my boyfriend i can tell wants to get more involved and i wasn't comfortable.
now i think i can stand up for myself if he gets too intimate again. its hard
to restrain, but with your letter i feel i might be able to do this, and with
the help of God. Thank you.
Entry of Nov
6, 2000 at 02:11 [EST]
From: Victor
Lau - cylau@lovehk.com
Age: 23
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Hong Kong
Entry of Nov
6, 2000 at 15:34 [EST]
From: TRENELL
A. CELESTINE
- BABY_NELL@BLACKPLANET.COM
Age: 18
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I presently live in New Orleans, Louisiana. This site has given
me more motivation to continue to abstain from sex. Practicing abstinence is
the best choice. With God's love and guidance I know it is possible for anyone
to make this commitment.
Entry of Nov
6, 2000 at 18:32 [EST]
From: Lisa
- Wicked33612@aol.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments:
Entry of Nov
6, 2000 at 23:56 [EST]
From: Jessica
- morgan__lane@hotmail.com
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Age: 17
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Hey! This website is great! I completely agree with the things
you have to say. I'm proud to state that I've never had sex and am not going
to until I'm married. I've been in two different year long relationships (still
in the second one) and my boyfriends and I have done nothing. We don't touch
in any personal places. I'm so glad I've made this commitment to God and that
He's made me strong. Keep up the good work and if anyone wants to email me,
feel free! God Bless!
Entry of Nov
7, 2000 at 20:54 [EST]
From: Jessica
- angel_girl_160@hotmail.com
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Age: 16
How I found your page: Other
Comments: i have chosen to not have sex until marrage because it is a
great experience for both you and your partner.if you have any questions email
me!!!
Entry of Nov
13, 2000 at 02:34 [EST]
From: Joanne
- Joanne7624@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: Link from another web page
Comments: I live in New York
Entry of Nov
13, 2000 at 11:26 [EST]
From: Abraham
Phelps - abe7777322@netscape.net
Age: 17
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Cheyenne Wyoming. I am with a group called Worth Waithing For
Cheyenne, a sexual abstinence organization.
Entry of Nov
13, 2000 at 19:20 [EST]
From: Brian
- Worship07@aol.com
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I'm in Sac-Metro Master's Commission (a ministry and leadership
development program, Sac-town California). I have committed to keeping the temple
of the Lord pure, and saving myself for my wife.
Entry of Nov
14, 2000 at 22:20 [EST]
From: Leslie
- shultsy13@hotmail.com
Age: 20
How I found your page: Other
Comments: Oklahoma
Entry of Nov
15, 2000 at 20:13 [EST]
From: Jacki
Cassady - liljax82@juno.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: Other
Comments: i am committed to myslef and my future husband. that is something
i cherish very much.
Entry of Nov
16, 2000 at 10:06 [EST]
From: cynthia
damon - cyn_demientieff@hotmail.com
Age: 24
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live on the Navajo rez. I have remain abstinent till marriage,
now I'm to a godly man, who loves the Lord
Entry of Nov
17, 2000 at 12:28 [EST]
From: Abigail
Fine - Angelfine1@aol.com
Age: 19
How I found your page: Other
Comments:
Entry of Nov
17, 2000 at 22:38 [EST]
From: Erin
Ling - Gus236@hotmail
Age: 17
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: Alexandri,KY
Entry of Nov
19, 2000 at 19:12 [EST]
From: Stephen
Findley - stephenfindley@zdnetmail.com
Age: 43
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Texas and work in a ministry. I'm single and commited
to remaining celibate while unmarried. I struggle from time to time with lustful
yearnings. I request prayers, support, and power by the Holy Spirit to remain
pure, focused, and godly in all of my personal interactions.
Entry of Nov
21, 2000 at 21:30 [EST]
From: Clintina
Sanders - SAnder1273@aol.com
Age: 16
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: I live in Chicago and I am close to a lot of people that have
sex and don't think twice about it. But I have made a comittment to GOD that
I will stay a virgin until marriage and I think that since I feel so strongly
about it, he has not allowed me to really struggle with keeping my virginity
and I thank him for that. I also think this is a wonderful webpage and all my
friends really need to see it! Thank You, I forgot your name, whoever wrote
this! It just gave me an extra boost of faith!
Entry of Nov
22, 2000 at 11:01 [EST]
From: Garrett
- toyjudge@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Yahoo!
Comments: Scarborough.....Ontario..... Canada
Entry of Nov
22, 2000 at 14:28 [EST]
From: Chris
Williams - cw83@btinternet.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I've posted on this guestbook before about my commitment to
sexual abstinence, but I'd like to say something as an update of what I've decided
to do, as a result of the Lord letting things happen on the abstinence e-mail
list, very soon after I first started thinking about it. Well, I've decided
that my first kiss will be at the front of a church and immediately preceded
by the words, "...I now pronounce you man and wife. You may kiss the bride."
Most of my friends think I'm crazy, but purity is not a line that we should
not cross, but rather a direction in life, and the Lord is taking me in that
direction. I know that He will Bless my marriage if I keep my promise to Him.
Any difficulties I experience because of wanting to do this, I know that there's
more than adequate a reward for it from God, when I am married. Yes, the world
opposes the idea, but I am freed from all the bondages and habits of this world,
by the 1 and only Jesus Christ. The Lord keeps and strengthens me. I love the
Lord, and the Lord loves me. And the Lord is going to make me the best husband
I can be for my future wife. I know I am in a tiny minority of people who've
chosen to wait until marriage to both kiss and make love, but with God on my
side, I am in a majority! If anyone wants to discuss this level of abstinence,
please e-mail me. Also, please sign up for the abstinence list - we have some
really good discussions, and there are a lot of really nice people there, too.
P.S. If anyone who reads this isn't a Christian: Don't think that I'm doing
this because of religion. I have never seen or heard of anything in the Bible
about waiting until marriage to kiss, and no church leader ever suggested it
to me. God did it Himself as a personal calling to me. Christianity is not a
religion, IT'S A PERSONAL, LIVING, INTIMATE, LOVING RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD.
Entry of Nov
23, 2000 at 22:31 [EST]
From: Jessica
- lilangel30485@aol.com
Age: 15
How I found your page: A friend told me
Comments:
Entry of Nov
24, 2000 at 15:46 [EST]
From: Vanessa
Kinczkowski -
vkinczko@umich.edu
Age: 18
How I found your page: A search engine other than Yahoo!
Comments: I am writing a persuasive essay on sexual abstinence. I think
it will be a great way to reach some people in my class. I liked some of the
statistics on this web page, but is there any more info that helps prove why
sex before marriage is bad? Thanks
Entry of Nov
25, 2000 at 12:19 [EST]
From: Amanda
Caraballo - Chiquies@hotmail.com
Age: 17
How I found your page: Link fro