Copyright 1998-2003 Ellen Tift. All material on this website my original work, except the scripture [obviously], the letter on 'A Man's Perspective', portions of the Q&A page, and random quotes where the source is noted. Should you desire to distribute or quote this material, such as to a school or youth group, or use this material in a publication of any sort, please let me know. If you do not agree with my perspective that is your choice. This page is to help those who are trying to remain abstinent, not necessarily convert those are not. Please do not e-mail me if you are just going to argue against abstinence. Thank you. E-mail Ellen.