You have a few options.
1. First of all there are several people in the guestbook and archives 1 [oldest] 2 3 4 5 6 or 7 [newest] who have expressed the desire to correspond with others. They would be happy to write back to you. Keep in mind these are random people from all over the planet. I can't take responsibility for anything they say.
2. OR, you can join the Abstinence Chat Group. As of 9/05/2003, there are over 200 members from all over the world, and they usually have some pretty good advice for each other.
3. You can also see highlights from letters we've received at the Abstinence Q & A page. This has a LOT of good insight from people who have helped me answer these letters, and we may have already answered your question. If you write a letter and do not want us to potentially use part of your letter on the Q&A page, all you need to do is say so. [All names, cities etc. are removed to protect people's identities.]